What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??

Very well said, allow me to put what you just said in another, succinct way: Women want to breed with an alpha male in both, the biological and the financial sense.
Biology 101

I have been married 26 years. I can assure you that what women want from men is whatever the man can't provide at that moment.

ITA, No "yes dears allowed" And must have a good sense of humor.

Personally I like to throw my man on the bed myself occasionally; power is sexy. lol.

I tell ya what they want Jed.

They wants BIG DICK Jed.

Lady want BIG OL' DICK JED.

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As a Mom who's been married for 23 years, you are more than full of shyte, you are probably 12, a paid shill, or a bot and wouldn't know life/love if it knocked you over the head. And you're grounded for lack of any discernible thought processes.

You left out showing him off to her rival female friends.

People go around life chasing chimeras (an illusion or fabrication of the mind; especially : an unrealizable dream) and bumping their heads onto the same hard walls until they die.

My take is that women idealize love and fool their own psyches into believing they want a blue prince, but then in practice they disregard the blue princes when their primal biology kicks in making them lust over the more primitive minded male archetype.

What you say of my theory?

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Humans are masters of deluding themselves into believing artificially made archetypes. We create fictional beliefs and believe them so badly they shape our existences. When you follow a false cause you often arrive at unexpected effects.

Assuming all women want the same thing in a man is the same thing as assuming all men want the same thing in a woman. Stupid and sexist.

Hell I was so naive at 20 I married a drunk and had nowhere to live once we came back from our weekend honeymoon!
Needless to say, that didn't last long.

Men are easy. Sex - Food - Beer - Sports - Sex - cleavage - no nagging - fidelity from the woman

Women are much more complicated. Kindness - Freedom to be oneself - Financial security (especially if there are children) - sex when they are in the mood - cleanliness, fidelity and the freedom to change one's own mind repeatedly

What can in fact make people's lives better is intelligence, that is the factor running low in the world. People do not usually cultivate that quality but instead they let their inherent biology rule their destinies and thus become a plaything of chance.

One of these is people actually thinking that if they culminate into a relationship their initial sexual attraction towards a random individual that will bring them happiness. If people actually wanted to have successful relationships they would have to change their whole process of choosing a partner, beginning with the actual reason why they want to have a partner in the first place.

Many people seek a partner and if they thought things through a bit more they would realize they actually do not want what they're chasing after.

Last Edited by Manu-K on 02/18/2012 10:48 PM

The men, historically speaking, are the ones to blame for this. Through years of condiitioning and domination men have molded, over the last 2,000+ generations of passive/aggresive bedfellows, bereft of their innate strengths and beauties.

Does your statement of women looking for trophy husband’s measure up to the generations of well to do middle-aged men in our society looking for trophy wives to validate their worth.

Thus, why do you look down your nose upon one sex and not the other, as both are equally wrong and foolish?

Who knows what actually happened at the very origin of things, our written records are very recent.

I think its pretty true.

But what you want and what you deserve are two diff things.

fidelity

True to some degree.

The media especially is working hard to portray men as monsters to further separate the sexes.

LOL. That's a typical man's view. You have no idea what we women go through. I'm married, but I do remember what dating was like. I had to put up with men who were pervertive, obnoxious, self-absorbed, and arrogant. It's near impossible to find a true gentleman these days. I was next to giving up. Also, I would say that women are taking more of a risk than men do. Since men initiate most dates, that automatically gives them more control in the relationship. Most women spend way too much time waiting for phone calls, or second dates while wondering what's going on in the man's head which creates stress. Some men who are really selfish like the fact that women are waiting on them , and it gives them a power trip. And that doesn't even touch getting ready (dress, shoes,hair, makeup, etc) which most men expect, but don't really have any idea what goes into it. My pet peeve is when guys ask you if you can be ready to go out in just 5 mins. They don't consider that we need to do all that junk. Then in the end, men usually do the dumping/cheating. But thankfully, I found the love of my life and he's wonderful.

Last Edited by Dease on 02/18/2012 10:59 PM

No, we need to put people in charge who deserve to be there.

I get that.

And here is where women have two contradictory desires:

1: They want the man to be the man.
2: And they also want to be equal.

???

How sweet!

Another woman who doesn't realize what she really wants.

I can say unequivocally what women DO NOT want

And that is an average guy. If you're average looking, make an average salary and have an average life, you can forget about getting some too often

all you ladies know you are conniving lying whores.

THATS HOW GOD MADE YOU TO SURVIVE AND REPRODUCE AND PROVIDE FOR YOUR OFFSPRING

'Cuz those men you chose had something else you wanted even more. You might think you want, "Unconditional acceptance of who we are as a person," but your choices said otherwise.

Amazingly accurate, actually. But frankly, too much to ask. Men do not want to have to listen or be affectionate. They just want to get laid and go back to doing something 'interesting' instead of actually reciprocate and give the woman what she needs from the relationship. Women need to be heard as much as men need to have sex. But men don't care and don't get it... yet they think that the high divorce rate is women's fault.

Except that most people who seek divorce are women. If it were women doing so much wrong, it would be always men seeking divorce.

That's why so many guys want go back to the old days where women were property. Because those guys can't keep a woman that isn't forced by necessity to be there, since they don't want to do for the woman, only get for themselves.

Every time I hear the whining by men about how much women suck these days, it's always all about the guy. He wants to be waited on hand and foot and get his sex for free. He has a job, he argues, and thus he deserves for this one factor, undying devotion and groveling.

The man in the video gets it. Women need to be heard to be happy. Not just someone to parrot our words at us. If we just needed that, we would buy a fucking recording machine and a dildo.

Instead, we keep trying to find that guy who actually HEARS us. Usually we end up settling for the one that doesn't completely and entirely ignore us.

^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly