Any psychics in the house tonight??

Ask away

Thank you so much! I need to know what the deal is with my boyfriend and this woman from his work.

Ask away

Is she a lot younger than him?

Yes, she's in her early 30's and he just turned 55.

Then the answer is yes. Sorry.

Can you give me any more info? Like when did this start...is it just sex or does he love her?

Infatuation & sex. Guessing you're married to him, in which case litigation is possible in the future.

Not married, but we do live together and I don't have anywhere else to go right now. *sigh*

we have a magician...ttwngirl - she can make bottle tabs disappear

Connected to starting work (either of them) & possibly to do with money - a win or payout of some kind? Not sure about that.

Well, he's only been at this job for 3-4 months. As for money, I don't know anything about that.

ok, Justice is highlighted which made me assume you were married, but either way it will end acrimoniously. Squabbles over rights or property etc.

Thank you for answering me. Just don't know what to do now...

Yeah, sorry I skip read. Didn't see the boyfriend part.
Started pretty much as soon as he met her.

Not a lot you can do other than try & wait it out or split.
My observation: not worth the wait or the trouble.. been there done that.

:(

Why do I get the feeling you're the woman at work and you want to know his intentions for YOU!!!!

Last Edited by ****SUPERFLY**** on 09/29/2012 12:38 AM

I get the feeling there might be an attraction, but nothing beyond flirting as of yet. I get that if they continue working together, it might escalate. I don't think it will though because one of them will get transferred. If you have a funny feeling about her, follow that....encourage him to switch departments. Confront him
about her and I think he will soon realize what he stands to lose.

hahahhaha
:FERAL SMILEY:

Force him to wear panties to work everyday. Shave his legs and paint his toenails

Any man who cheats is not worth caring about. It shows callous disregard for your essence; he is disrespecting your life force and his own. You deserve better than that.

I really did laugh out loud at this one. Thanks for the laugh.

I still get a laugh out of your threads TTOWN, EVEN THO YOU BANNED ME A LONG TIME AGO.

Are you a cancer?

If so take it easay ayyy

If not take a break w/0 em


You can do better

I say nothing to worry about, she aint gonna go for him, that's a big age difference and his balls are too old and wrinkly for her

Just my opinion, that don't make it true

Probably more like an Aquarius!

Wow! I AM an Aquarius!!

Ok so let's tackle your situation. I'm feeling that the situation you have described is nothing to be worried about. It's been a tough year it seems for both you and your bf. Money issues, health issues and new job issues. It can play a toll on a relationship. I'm gathering that your bf is just flirting. When a man gets to be 55 and is struggling any newness or freshness to a situation can be alluring. He won't go anywhere with this girl. But what about you?? It seems socially GLP is it for you!? While you are on GLP, where is your bf?? Is he just sitting there or are you doing GLP while he works? So you socialize on the side here? He then is allowed to socialize also! See my point?

I wouldn't get all caught up with this girl. If he wants to leave or breach your relationship(which I doubt) then so be it! You can't force people to love you , ya know!!!

Take care of yourself, your child(son)?! Even though I think he is old enough to start taking care of himself. All I'm saying is get out of this RUT. Change your life, make it happen!!!

I feel your educated...you write well..so go out and get it girl!!!

:)

Last Edited by ****SUPERFLY**** on 09/29/2012 01:13 PM

UPDATE:

Well, he was in a good mood the other night and home from work, so we talked. I didn't confront him about the computer thing and I didn't mention the woman in question by name. He assured me that "there's not anyone else" and that he hasn't been having sex because he's just been tired. He did scold me though, for being so insecure. I don't know, it didn't seem like he was lying to me, but I still can't shake this feeling I have.

Well there ya go! As I said, nothing going on there. It's becoming that time soon...you gonna want to be around your closest friends or family!