Advice on this Girl

also, i am a VERY good looking guy, not to sound conceited, even though it does

Only one way to find out.

relationship advice on GLP is a bad idea.

Conduct yourself like a gentleman. She will notice that over anything else, and then she will be yours. Good luck!

Yep. That's why she is bangin another dude.

butterfly love ....is love with out substance

she is still attached....

dream and move on ....

You only got one life, go for it. She's not married and if she is totally in love with her bf then she will just use the friends card. Then you can move on one way or another.

Missed your chance sorry. Gotta move on. Been though this one too many times.

tell her straight and don't get caught up in emotion.

She doesn't give a shit, honestly.

Or she'll dis you which will make moving on a easier

I've been seeing a pattern with these posts for awhile now. Are you CIA?

This. Hey you are both single..figure it out before everyone gets married..always the best advice.

dude she prolly wanted you to ask her out, but since you didnt, when this guy did she went for it

girl needs some lovin too


I would say stop being a pussy about it

call her up, ask to see her or hangout

when you do see her

just say

"enough of this, lets do what we want" and make a move



trust me

she probably does like you, but she was waiting for you to be a man and take her...


be a man

I did the same as you only my crush has lasted 36 years on a girl that never liked me more than a friend. I was too nice at the time and not sexual enough; I got put into the friend zone. You have a long road ahead of you trying to figure out why you are a nice guy and what you can do to man up. The girl probably reminds you of your mother in some way and your mother may not have given you the attention that you needed as an infant.

Some things to ponder: If you were born in another city, you would find another person that you would think is the only one ! Do not forget this, it isn't about her, its about you projecting your needs onto her !

You will have the urge to try to change into what you think she wants in a guy,,,,don't do it because if it did not work out, it wasn't meant to be. This is A LESSON FOR YOU !!! Realize that your attraction is not LOVE but dependency. You may be duplicating with her the same relationship you had with your mother. Do not try to impress her either as women take that as insecurity. The only chance you could have with this female is by getting past your insecurities and treating her like you treat other women that are friends.

Speaking from experience, if she did marry you, I guarantee that in a couple years she would be cheating or find somebody that was a perfect match for her; you would be out in the cold. Better to start working on yourself so that you can figure out what kind of girl really interests you apart from your insecurities from youth.

I strongly recommend a psychologist for at least a few visits;;; record the session with a hidden recorder if necessary. They will come in handy decades later to see how much you improved.

You are dam lucky that the web is here,,,there are lots of sites to help you.


Look up PUA vids on you tube.

look up the wing girls on you tube.

Read these articles on nice guys,they are tremendous !

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the thing is, if you want her, you can win her, but if you dont want her dont play.

are you in love with an idea in your head of her or the real her?

Go directly to the biggest party you can find on campus tonight. If you are gl guy you should find it pretty easy to hookup with someone, have a conversation, maybe get laid, and figure out that there are more opportunities for romance than the chick from hs that was not that into you. Go get laid!!!!

Not smart to post something like this here. I suggest you hit a MTV Forum or Facebook.

Women prefer men who can construct both complete sentences and paragraphs as opposed to wall-o-text...

That being said, you'll never know unless you ask...go for it! You've nothing to lose but a bit of ego...

Well, getting to know her better might be a start. What you have to remember is that it's her choice to make not yours or the other guy.

My best guess from the wall-o-text is that she is open for change of relationships. Do what she likes, be nice and let her make the move.

There are a lot of girls out there. Don't waste your time for just one that might be. If it was meant so she would have came running back and dumped the other guy completely.