Caught my husband jacking off? | |
Jericho9 User ID: 7913305 United States 10/08/2012 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just an hour ago I caught my husband jacking off in the shower. He never jacks off or anything like that because I try to satisfy him by having sex with him every night. I questioned him the moment he got caught and he said since we fought last night he was thinking we werent going to have sex for the next couple of days, then he changed his story and said he jacked off because it was hard and he wanted to get rid of the feeling, and that he lost interest in me long time ago? He went on and on with his reasons of jacking off. Lately he's been making excuses that he's tired all the time, we have used to have sex twice a day, then it went down to once a day, and every 2 days. Last night my husband and I had conflict because he didn't want to have sex with me, even though we agreed and I felt hurt. I told my husband how I felt about it, then he stormed off downstairs and slept there. He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore. My question is why would he jack off if he has a wife he could have sex with as much as he wants? He had an opportunity to have sex with me last night? Him not wanting to have sex with me, makes me feel unwanted. I'm attractive, and still young. How do I react to him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24206893 And this is the forum for this??? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25080880 United States 10/08/2012 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A guy probably started this thread,anyway if not you bitches think that puss is gold (not).You say your young so what.Some men including myself have had enough for 2 lifetimes.There comes a point in a mans life that it is a secondary or tertiary priority.Grow up little girl (if you are a girl). If he takes care of you and treats you well and is faithful to you CHILL THE FUCK OUT.He ain`t cheatin`. |
eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina 10/08/2012 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just an hour ago I caught my husband jacking off in the shower. He never jacks off or anything like that because I try to satisfy him by having sex with him every night. I questioned him the moment he got caught and he said since we fought last night he was thinking we werent going to have sex for the next couple of days, then he changed his story and said he jacked off because it was hard and he wanted to get rid of the feeling, and that he lost interest in me long time ago? He went on and on with his reasons of jacking off. Lately he's been making excuses that he's tired all the time, we have used to have sex twice a day, then it went down to once a day, and every 2 days. Last night my husband and I had conflict because he didn't want to have sex with me, even though we agreed and I felt hurt. I told my husband how I felt about it, then he stormed off downstairs and slept there. He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore. My question is why would he jack off if he has a wife he could have sex with as much as he wants? He had an opportunity to have sex with me last night? Him not wanting to have sex with me, makes me feel unwanted. I'm attractive, and still young. How do I react to him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24206893 |
Jericho9 User ID: 7913305 United States 10/08/2012 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just an hour ago I caught my husband jacking off in the shower. He never jacks off or anything like that because I try to satisfy him by having sex with him every night. I questioned him the moment he got caught and he said since we fought last night he was thinking we werent going to have sex for the next couple of days, then he changed his story and said he jacked off because it was hard and he wanted to get rid of the feeling, and that he lost interest in me long time ago? He went on and on with his reasons of jacking off. Lately he's been making excuses that he's tired all the time, we have used to have sex twice a day, then it went down to once a day, and every 2 days. Last night my husband and I had conflict because he didn't want to have sex with me, even though we agreed and I felt hurt. I told my husband how I felt about it, then he stormed off downstairs and slept there. He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore. My question is why would he jack off if he has a wife he could have sex with as much as he wants? He had an opportunity to have sex with me last night? Him not wanting to have sex with me, makes me feel unwanted. I'm attractive, and still young. How do I react to him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24206893 Here's an education. EVERY man jacks off in the shower. There are NO exceptions. Whether they have a woman they love or not they do. Stop being insecure. Be happy it's in the shower. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1445731 United States 10/08/2012 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina 10/08/2012 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and the second commment can only come from a person that never had a long term relationship, so is shooting silly advice out of his ass, so not really competent realibale source at all. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20586262 United States 10/08/2012 09:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I feel it's OK only if both of the married parties know about it. There are illnesses that sometimes this is necesary in a married couple's life. But what you husband is doing is wrong. You going to have to work through it. Find out why he's doing it. Have some life changes and start to communicate in your marriage. Bottom line! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25179838 United States 10/08/2012 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | whats wrong with beatin off? Quoting: Bazingaaa just because your in a relationship doesnt mean you can't do you feel betrayed? do you feel as if he cheated on you with his own mitt? get real I agree The guy is just draining his pipes, No biggie. Agree and at least he isnt out cheating on you.Join him if he likes doing that.No reason he cant do that and you be involved. My husband use to do that at times when we had sex.Told me it was a different feeling when he did it.So we made it a common occurrence among the variety of ways we had sex. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25218448 Nepal 10/08/2012 10:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The hypocrisy and man-hatred of you western women just disgusts me. No intelligent man should EVER get married, especially to western women. Western women are the worst women on earth. |
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backboneofnight User ID: 16293578 Canada 10/08/2012 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would u post this? Poor guy. Is this is an indirect way to get back at him to let know to total strangers? Shame on you. If you loved him, u wouldn't post your "sex" life. When he was jacking off, u should have given him a blowjob instead of ridiculing him. Say that your sorry. Anyway, this could a bs story. |
l3ol3o User ID: 10729761 United States 10/08/2012 10:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just an hour ago I caught my husband jacking off in the shower. He never jacks off or anything like that because I try to satisfy him by having sex with him every night. I questioned him the moment he got caught and he said since we fought last night he was thinking we werent going to have sex for the next couple of days, then he changed his story and said he jacked off because it was hard and he wanted to get rid of the feeling, and that he lost interest in me long time ago? He went on and on with his reasons of jacking off. Lately he's been making excuses that he's tired all the time, we have used to have sex twice a day, then it went down to once a day, and every 2 days. Last night my husband and I had conflict because he didn't want to have sex with me, even though we agreed and I felt hurt. I told my husband how I felt about it, then he stormed off downstairs and slept there. He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore. My question is why would he jack off if he has a wife he could have sex with as much as he wants? He had an opportunity to have sex with me last night? Him not wanting to have sex with me, makes me feel unwanted. I'm attractive, and still young. How do I react to him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24206893 Don't worry about it. Men are much more hornier then women are. He may just be tired of the same thing and looking for something new. Try spicing things up in bed maybe? Sometimes a guy just needs to jack off. If you have sex all the time and never jack off then jacking off becomes "special" again. Maybe he is just an ass. If what you say is true (Young, Attractive, and willing to have sex whenever) then the problem seems to be with him, not you. Maybe tone down the sex to every other night or something? Maybe your husband is just getting old. "He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore." This is a little concerning though. Time for a serious talk. If he's serious that he doesn't care about your marriage it's time to find someone new while your still young and attractive. Ayatollah Khomeini: “Islam makes it incumbent on all adult males, provided they are not disabled and incapacitated, to prepare themselves for the conquest of [other] countries so that the writ of Islam is obeyed in every country in the world. But those who study Islamic Holy War will understand why Islam wants to conquer the whole world…. Those who know nothing of Islam pretend that Islam counsels against war. Those [who say this] are witless. Islam says: Kill all the unbelievers just as they would kill you all! Does this mean that Muslims should sit back until they are devoured by [the unbelievers]? Islam says: Kill them [the non-Muslims], put them to the sword and scatter [their armies]. Does this mean sitting back until [non-Muslims] overcome us? Islam says: Kill in the service of Allah those who may want to kill you! Does this mean that we should surrender to the enemy? Islam says: Whatever good there is exists thanks to the sword and in the shadow of the sword! People cannot be made obedient except with the sword! The sword is the key to Paradise, which can be opened only for Holy Warriors! There are hundreds of other [Koranic] verses and Hadiths [sayings of the Prophet] urging Muslims to value war and to fight. Does all that mean that Islam is a religion that prevents men from waging war? I spit upon those foolish souls who make such a claim.” |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25184767 Ireland 10/08/2012 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should tie him up and force him to have sex with you. That would teach him! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24974328 +100000000000000 This AC is spot on OP! You need to rape your husband, anal penetration is a must. Do you have a strap-on? You just ruined it ... Ruined what exactly? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25184767 Ireland 10/08/2012 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should tie him up and force him to have sex with you. That would teach him! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24974328 +100000000000000 This AC is spot on OP! You need to rape your husband, anal penetration is a must. Do you have a strap-on? You just ruined it ... Ruined what exactly? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25184767 Ireland 10/08/2012 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should tie him up and force him to have sex with you. That would teach him! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24974328 +100000000000000 This AC is spot on OP! You need to rape your husband, anal penetration is a must. Do you have a strap-on? You just ruined it ... Ruined what exactly? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20586262 United States 10/08/2012 10:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | whats wrong with beatin off? Quoting: Bazingaaa just because your in a relationship doesnt mean you can't do you feel betrayed? do you feel as if he cheated on you with his own mitt? get real I agree The guy is just draining his pipes, No biggie. Agree and at least he isnt out cheating on you.Join him if he likes doing that.No reason he cant do that and you be involved. My husband use to do that at times when we had sex.Told me it was a different feeling when he did it.So we made it a common occurrence among the variety of ways we had sex. But when a woman isn't use to this, doesn't know her husband is doing it, it can be painful to learn it even if he isn't with another woman. |
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Mkguyver User ID: 20828274 United States 10/08/2012 11:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what your man does in the shower is he's own business, or what you do in the shower is your own business and your comment says more about you than your husband. good luck sweetie! |
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Scarbedazzles User ID: 7087818 United States 10/08/2012 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | for those needing a picture who cares what she looks like, she can give you any pic she wants... THIS THREAD IS USELESS WITHOUT PICTURES. Quoting: anonymous asshole 1567474 WE CANT DETERMINE THE ISSUE YOU ARE HAVING WITHOUT A FULL BODY PIC OF YOU. THEN WE CAN GIVE YOU ADVICE. I need to rule out that it is your body. Please post a naked pic of yourself so I can tell if that is the reason. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25199763 Scrump, my friend you nailed it!!!! Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice shame on me. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20413827 United States 10/08/2012 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just an hour ago I caught my husband jacking off in the shower. He never jacks off or anything like that because I try to satisfy him by having sex with him every night. I questioned him the moment he got caught and he said since we fought last night he was thinking we werent going to have sex for the next couple of days, then he changed his story and said he jacked off because it was hard and he wanted to get rid of the feeling, and that he lost interest in me long time ago? He went on and on with his reasons of jacking off. Lately he's been making excuses that he's tired all the time, we have used to have sex twice a day, then it went down to once a day, and every 2 days. Last night my husband and I had conflict because he didn't want to have sex with me, even though we agreed and I felt hurt. I told my husband how I felt about it, then he stormed off downstairs and slept there. He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore. My question is why would he jack off if he has a wife he could have sex with as much as he wants? He had an opportunity to have sex with me last night? Him not wanting to have sex with me, makes me feel unwanted. I'm attractive, and still young. How do I react to him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24206893 so Michelle obama caught barack beating off. LOL So Obama works for the Germans now? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23755869 United States 10/08/2012 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Listen here OP, if he's jerking alone he's 110% thinking of a woman other than you while doing it. Many men need to fuck women other this their wives, but they understand hat they can't actually do it in real life. So, they jerk off when you are not home and they have visions of other women in their minds when they jerk. Often times its your friends or coworkers that they are jerk fucking. It's usually happens whe the sex he is getting from you no longer excites him. He is on the hunt for some strange. Basically, two options. End it and let him get his fuck on with other women. Or Let him have a weekend fuckfest with another woman. |