Caught my husband jacking off?

And this is the forum for this???

A guy probably started this thread,anyway if not
you bitches think that puss is gold (not).You say
your young so what.Some men including myself have
had enough for 2 lifetimes.There comes a point in
a mans life that it is a secondary or tertiary
priority.Grow up little girl (if you are a girl).
If he takes care of you and treats you well and is
faithful to you CHILL THE FUCK OUT.He ain`t cheatin`.

i don't think masturbating is the problem, everything else he said and did/didn't do is though. i was marreid to a guy like that, he turned out to be a saditic sociopathic person. he used sex, or pretending he doesn't want it, to blackmail me into..well being his dormat really...i am a very sensual person and i thought we were i love, i just wanted to do it all the time, and he did everything from suddently finding everything wrong with the way i look,(that never bothered him when he was tricking me into marrying him, he kept saying i was very beautiful, a 10)... to pretending he is sexually confused...to accusing me of being insensitive, too interested in sex, too good in bed, too bad in bed.....basically he was plying me....his penis was constantly up, i inhale and exhale and he gets a hardon, yet he was more and more like "aw my god, u just want sex"....blah blah..."i have feelings, i am a sensitive man"...till he'd make me feel like he was brain fucking me, which is one place u don't want your husband to do it to you, and i'd say something like, "aw jesus what are u, a girl, just do it, just kiss me"....(which was exactly the kind of frustrated response he was looking for, so he could built on his theory how i was osmehow a bad wife for wanting to make love to my husband)i am not trying to make this thread about my sociopathic, psychotic, sadistic, manipoulative ex husband..but i will not be so arrogant as to assume that i can give you marriage advice via silly trashy forum.love is way to important and serious to let strangers who know only a few lines you stated on a foruma bout your relationship, give you input, but i am just trying to tell you that if a man acts like ur does, it isn't good news, and it usually turns out he is not a nice man...otherwise he'd be good to his wife, or ask for a damn divorce....good luck....remember you said it, you are still young, and if you manage to get away from him, maybe you still can find a good man, who wld love you and appreciate you and when you see him jacking off, wld say something matture, like nuffink babe, just playing wt myself, wanna join in?see my point???my ex used to pretend he had problems ejaculating, becuase he was not happy with the amount of sexual attraction i had for him,( i had a lot attraction, but he wanted more) so in order to artifiacially make me insane over our sex life he was like i have delayed ejaculation its a problem google it....so i said well do u ejaculate when you masturbate he said he did, yah, so i encouriged him to masturbate in front of me, and with my help...damn it i was a really good wife and he played me like a fool.u know something sister...get a divorce and get a good man before he devaours your ability to trust people and ruins your life and chances with a good man...don't waste time on someone who "has no interest in you" but isn't man enough to ask for divorce. either he is a whimp or a manipulator, nither is a very good prospect fora huband

Here's an education. EVERY man jacks off in the shower. There are NO exceptions. Whether they have a woman they love or not they do. Stop being insecure. Be happy it's in the shower.

Extra food stamps!

and to daft and dafter above me, yes this is the section of the damn forum actually called SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS, can you read?
and
the second commment can only come from a person that never had a long term relationship, so is shooting silly advice out of his ass, so not really competent realibale source at all.

You could probably use this in your divorce settlement.
Bust his ass and take him for everything!

I feel it's OK only if both of the married parties know about it. There are illnesses that sometimes this is necesary in a married couple's life.

But what you husband is doing is wrong. You going to have to work through it. Find out why he's doing it. Have some life changes and start to communicate in your marriage. Bottom line!

Agree and at least he isnt out cheating on you.Join him if he likes doing that.No reason he cant do that and you be involved.
My husband use to do that at times when we had sex.Told me it was a different feeling when he did it.So we made it a common occurrence among the variety of ways we had sex.

Cut his balls off. Hell never jack off again.

Maybe if you weren't such an ugly woman, and you actually tried to satisfy your husband, he wouldn't have to masturbate?

The hypocrisy and man-hatred of you western women just disgusts me.

No intelligent man should EVER get married, especially to western women. Western women are the worst women on earth.

+100000000000000


This AC is spot on OP! You need to rape your husband, anal penetration is a must. Do you have a strap-on?

You just ruined it ...

Don't worry about it. Men are much more hornier then women are. He may just be tired of the same thing and looking for something new. Try spicing things up in bed maybe? Sometimes a guy just needs to jack off. If you have sex all the time and never jack off then jacking off becomes "special" again.

Maybe he is just an ass. If what you say is true (Young, Attractive, and willing to have sex whenever) then the problem seems to be with him, not you. Maybe tone down the sex to every other night or something? Maybe your husband is just getting old.

"He was yelling at me and telling me he doesn't care about this marriage, and that hes been pretending to be happy. He thinks our sex is like a chore."

This is a little concerning though. Time for a serious talk. If he's serious that he doesn't care about your marriage it's time to find someone new while your still young and attractive.

Ruined what exactly?

Ruined what exactly?

Ruined what exactly?

But when a woman isn't use to this, doesn't know her husband is doing it, it can be painful to learn it even if he isn't with another woman.

probably resents you and doesnt want to get that close to you anymore.

What else is going on in your relationship?

I jerk off in front of the Mrs. once a week just to reaffirm my independence.

Haha

Funny how the psychologists will post this BS, and some will fall for it and post their opinions or "answers", thus feeding the beast. Idiots. Go bite Donkey Dicks OPie.

You haven't been married long enough to have the right to post what you have posted, you immature bitch,
what your man does in the shower is he's own business, or what you do in the shower is your own business and your comment says more about you than your husband.

good luck sweetie!

Dude I'm with you on that!

for those needing a picture

who cares what she looks like, she can give you any pic she wants...







Scrump, my friend you nailed it!!!!

So Obama works for the Germans now?

Listen here OP, if he's jerking alone he's 110% thinking of a woman other than you while doing it. Many men need to fuck women other this their wives, but they understand hat they can't actually do it in real life. So, they jerk off when you are not home and they have visions of other women in their minds when they jerk. Often times its your friends or coworkers that they are jerk fucking.

It's usually happens whe the sex he is getting from you no longer excites him. He is on the hunt for some strange.

Basically, two options.

End it and let him get his fuck on with other women.

Or

Let him have a weekend fuckfest with another woman.