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1908247 User ID: 26847984 Brazil 11/02/2012 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be honest and please no trolls! I have an easy one. Quoting: thecelticcat Yes, I've use condoms, with my ex, but the last time we were together he just pulled out(didn't use a condom), and I heard there's a small chance that a little bit of you know what can still get swim up there and get a woman pregnant. I recently dumped this guy a few weeks ago, but now I'm about 4 days late for my period! I'm not always exact, and get it perfectly every 28 days, but this is not just 2 or 3 days off. IT'S FOUR DAYS OFF! This would ruin me! Well it is possible indeed. Don't get nervous though.. maybe your own anxiety is what is messing up your period lol, relax and wait.. whatever happens you won't be able to avoid now anyways Nus |
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thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/02/2012 04:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be honest and please no trolls! I have an easy one. Quoting: thecelticcat Yes, I've use condoms, with my ex, but the last time we were together he just pulled out(didn't use a condom), and I heard there's a small chance that a little bit of you know what can still get swim up there and get a woman pregnant. I recently dumped this guy a few weeks ago, but now I'm about 4 days late for my period! I'm not always exact, and get it perfectly every 28 days, but this is not just 2 or 3 days off. IT'S FOUR DAYS OFF! This would ruin me! Well it is possible indeed. Don't get nervous though.. maybe your own anxiety is what is messing up your period lol, relax and wait.. whatever happens you won't be able to avoid now anyways Are you psychic? I dumped him because of his negative energy. He had a lot! He didn't match my vibration. He was a heathen and borderline sociopath. Took advantage of me because I was and trying to recover from being a 'love addict'. I feel like I was being tested and it's hard for me to be alone. I don't have any kids, 36yo, and Spirit has been giving me messages and sychnronicities (spelling) that having a baby, is part of my destiny. I have a little one, on the other side that's really wanting to incarnate(spirit) I know this... I'm not going to get into how I know, but this guy won't be a good father or husband! Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/02/2012 04:17 PM |
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thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/02/2012 04:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think God would have wanted me to be linked with this guy because of his choices. He chose his path and is not willing to change like some people in the world do. I believe people can change. Optimistic that way. I've known people that have changed their path, so it's possible. My ex it too lazy to change. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/02/2012 04:24 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26369344 United States 11/02/2012 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think God would have wanted me to be linked with this guy because of his choices. He chose his path and is not willing to change like some people in the world do. I believe people can change. Optimistic that way. Quoting: thecelticcat I've known people that have changed their path, so it's possible. My ex it too lazy to change. Consider yourself lucky this time and don't make the same mistake again. |
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thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/02/2012 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I remember hearing about at least one woman, that got pregnant on the pill! I think it was a few times! Condoms break too! I even heard the foam stuff and gels are not very good as birth control, and pulling out seems to have a reputation for birth control, from what I heard. I WILL NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE! I don't even want to have sex until I'm married, really. I'm thinking about waiting! Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/02/2012 04:41 PM |
Eternium User ID: 23779562 Canada 11/02/2012 04:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I remember hearing about at least one woman, that got pregnant on the pill! I think it was a few times! Condoms break too! I even heard the foam stuff and gels are not very good as birth control, and pulling out seems to have a reputation for birth control. I WILL NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE! I don't even want to have sex until I'm married, really. I'm thinking about waiting! I should add that the girl IS on birth control, I would not get laid other wise. Tatvamasi. Empty and marvelous |
thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/02/2012 04:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I remember hearing about at least one woman, that got pregnant on the pill! I think it was a few times! Condoms break too! I even heard the foam stuff and gels are not very good as birth control, and pulling out seems to have a reputation for birth control. I WILL NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE! I don't even want to have sex until I'm married, really. I'm thinking about waiting! I should add that the girl IS on birth control, I would not get laid other wise. I've always been smart about this subject and have had a condom break, but NEVER in my life got pregnant. So I'm not one that's careless. This was only because my ex, I assumed didn't have a condom. He always provided them. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/02/2012 04:50 PM |
thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/02/2012 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It could be anxiety or change of the seasons. (Mine gets goofy 1 month in spring and 1 )month in fall) It's better to know then worry. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9143700 That's interesting you say that. My room mate got hers recently and it was so bad, she said 'it was like shards of glass coming out' and she said she was passing huge blood clots. SORRY if I grossed out the guys, but it's a natural thing! Mature people can handle it. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/02/2012 04:57 PM |
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thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/06/2012 11:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think God would have wanted me to be linked with this guy because of his choices. He chose his path and is not willing to change like some people in the world do. I believe people can change. Optimistic that way. Quoting: thecelticcat I've known people that have changed their path, so it's possible. My ex it too lazy to change. Consider yourself lucky this time and don't make the same mistake again. You were wrong, unless it's a 'false positive' and a 20% chance I'm not pregnant. I was told the only way to know for sure is an ultrasound. Anybody psychics to jump in here? I don't want to keep it but this could be a test, from GOD if I am pregnant. I had sex while I was finishing my last period and wasn't even close to ovulating! He pulled out too. I've known guys that said pulling out has always worked and I've also known people that used birth control like condoms and the pill that got pregnant! I had a condom break on me and another time one fell off, so... I was on the pill when I was in my twenties, then came off cuz wasn't having sex for a few years and went back on the pill but because of side effects, in my thirties, had to come off of them. So I think this soul, if it's in my womb chose me and I'm almost 37yo. I think I would make a horrible mom, and I don't want to get into why... Any psychics have a clue why? Is this a test? I want to abort it because of mainly I can't afford it. Is this the test? Would my finances be worse if I get rid of it? BTW, was brought up Catholic, so I feel like I'm sinning in a way and sin has a price. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/06/2012 11:56 AM |
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thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/06/2012 12:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | God help this world..when we use terms as "get rid of it" when referring to a baby..Gosh..I think Im heading up that mountain.. Quoting: wildhoney Sorry, but I'm really not feeling well and cried myself to sleep. I'm really not clear in the head right now. I don't know how landlords can tell someone to get rid of a cat or dog, because I think they are special and you know what usually happens, to cats and dogs...after in a shelter for a while. They put them to sleep(get rid of them) Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/06/2012 12:05 PM |
thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/06/2012 01:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OK, one more question. Can anybody tell me if abortion was a sin BEFORE Christianity came along? I'm trying to do what's best, for this soul, that wants to come in. I don't want it to grow up to hate me for being poor or inheriting something not good from me or the dad. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5542489 United States 11/06/2012 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | God help this world..when we use terms as "get rid of it" when referring to a baby..Gosh..I think Im heading up that mountain.. Quoting: wildhoney Sorry, but I'm really not feeling well and cried myself to sleep. I'm really not clear in the head right now. I don't know how landlords can tell someone to get rid of a cat or dog, because I think they are special and you know what usually happens, to cats and dogs...after in a shelter for a while. They put them to sleep(get rid of them) Oh dear OP you are a sensitive soul. I'm not psychic and can't say if you're pregnant or not but I am sorry you're in this pain. When I was 17 my ex-boyfriend date-raped me in his car and I got pregnant. I was terrified to tell my abusive mother and he paid for me to have an abortion (this was in the 70s, Roe V Wade was new and abortion was considered "no big deal"). Well it IS a big deal especially if you have strong emotions about it and are sensitive to animals and children like you seem to be. I attempted suicide and finally confessed to my mother and it was a horrible situation all around. Many years later a therapist dug deep enough to find that the abortion at age 17 was the starting point of my depression. You are older, therefore more mature than I was but an abortion is not to be taken lightly, I've seen friends through it and some breezed through it without a second thought, others were devastated. Either way it's a very tough call. Yes you can get pregnant even if he pulls out. There is sperm in his fluids even at the beginning of intercourse. I've had psychics tell me that a little blonde boy is always with me. Always. I eventually married and had a daughter but I believe that blonde boy is the soul of the baby I would have had. I do believe this is a wake-up call from God to think about your future, what do YOU want, never mind what anyone else tells you, friends or family or ex-boyfriends or psychics, but what do YOU want? Talk to God about it and see what happens, trust your gut feelings. Whatever happens know that you will be okay, and that you are loved. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5542489 United States 11/06/2012 09:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I want to abort it because of mainly I can't afford it. Is this the test? Would my finances be worse if I get rid of it? BTW, was brought up Catholic, so I feel like I'm sinning in a way and sin has a price. Quoting: thecelticcats If this soul is meant to be your baby (if you are pregnant) and you are almost 37 years old it might be your only chance to be a mother, so please take all that into consideration before aborting simply because of finances. If you are meant to have this baby, trust that you are also meant to find the financial resources to provide for it. If the man is useless as a father, you can raise a baby alone if that is what you feel called to do. No matter which choice you make, go into it with open eyes, don't make a hasty decision, trust in your gut feelings. Then again, you just might wake up tomorrow morning with your period! Whatever happens, this has given you time to do a little soul-searching. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1896737 Australia 11/06/2012 09:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, hiya. just a few points.. women can get pregnant on the pill you can get pregnant during your period(if your cycling abnormally) you can get pregnant with withdrawal method. and stress definately can scare your period off, so can worrying about it. 3 more points: withdrawal doesnt protect you from stds(get tested) women that have had abortions usually dont cope with it mentally, most often years later buy a pregnacy test from the chemist. |
thecelticcat (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 11/06/2012 09:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've been letting my ex(the father) bully me and really be mean about it, saying he'll hate me and won't pay child support. I've settled down took back my POWER and said this is between me and GOD and I won't let my ex ruin my relationship with God. I am leaning toward keeping it 99%! Isn't it a law he has to pay child support, because I will do what I legally have to make sure he shoves out some money! I wasn't thinking clearly and now I'm more calm. Thanks to... long story and this forum, only thanks to the nice people that made me think and some tough love I think I got. Thanks for telling it like it is. |
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