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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4714791 United States 11/12/2012 05:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just a side note, but both myself and my wife will not have any problems finding another, even at our age. She is still very good looking and has a lot going for her, good job, etc. Trust is paramount and I always let her do whatever she wanted. She always took care of her family before even herself. She is a good women, but what she done is undefendable in my old fashioned mind. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 Why is the other woman getting divorced? Who is going to move for who? |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 05:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'd be thinking to myself... dna test for the 9 year old daughter if i were you... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22083480 just sayin. The 9 yr old is a boy and he looks just like me. No probs there, she has always been faithful but this one time. She did all but throw herself on an old HS friend, and damn is he an ugly sob. That's not anger talking there neither, just the truth which I always speak, even to a fault sometimes. Told you I am old fashioned, just nobodys fool tho. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 05:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is the other woman getting divorced? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4714791 Who is going to move for who? I think he should move into her place. Just my gut instinct. Don't know if that would make me happy. I prefer to be the bread winner if you can understand that mentality. I started with nothing and now want for for nothing. Not that I am super successful, but we live quite comfortably, better then our parents had it anyways. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9128390 Australia 11/12/2012 05:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 No don't divorce her.. 23 years with one person is fucking hard work.. Look you think about other woman all the time and chances are you have flirted with other woman even had a little fling in the journey. Just saying we are all only human afterall.. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4714791 United States 11/12/2012 05:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is the other woman getting divorced? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4714791 Who is going to move for who? I think he should move into her place. Just my gut instinct. Don't know if that would make me happy. I prefer to be the bread winner if you can understand that mentality. I started with nothing and now want for for nothing. Not that I am super successful, but we live quite comfortably, better then our parents had it anyways. So the other woman is going to give up her successful job and move to be with you? What about her kids? |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 05:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The gig's up OP though, at least for me because I just heard your thoughts... Quoting: Mister Obvious You were thinking this story isn't even one of your best and you were caught off guard at the reaction. I assure you, all I have said is true. I guess I am looking for the magic answer. I know it's not out there but my heart is true. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 05:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I assure you, all I have said is true. I guess I am looking for the magic answer. I know it's not out there but my heart is true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 Well you've been given great advice on this thread. Especially by me. And a couple of those other people. As crazy as it sounds, I will reread these posts and I thank those of you sincere with me. I have few that I can share this with and most all say its time to cut the ties. It's one of the hardest decisions I have ever had. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7570540 United States 11/12/2012 05:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1535628 Canada 11/12/2012 05:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7570540 |
Anonymous Coward 11/12/2012 05:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As crazy as it sounds, I will reread these posts and I thank those of you sincere with me. I have few that I can share this with and most all say its time to cut the ties. It's one of the hardest decisions I have ever had. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 Some do say that... However one person's way more truthy and enlightened opinion can trump 10 of those other little nagging suggestions. You had a couple of those on here man. Their verdict was basically that you want it to be over and you want to be with the other woman. Either way do what you want, not like you don't have a legitimate out. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 05:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't talk about your love - only your wife's love for you and the greater love this other woman has for you. Don't you have love for anyone? Honestly, it kind of sounds like you are wondering if this is a good enough reason to kick her out so that you can pursue this other relationship - and that you would do it in a NY minute if it weren't for your child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7570540 Once you love someone, I think you always do to a certain degree. I honestly found out I love my wife even more then I realized. I love them both but have a passion for my wife. I just know I will always be wondering if she would ever do it again and I don't think I can live like that, passion or not. |
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