Why is it rare to see white men and black women together ? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27299630 United Kingdom 11/14/2012 04:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the black woman hold up the black race and her kids even though they are starting to fail ... i admire some black women .... beutifull things . |
Kamon User ID: 18629325 United States 11/14/2012 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think it's because black women for the most part are taught to be a mental power house by their mothers. The Black family has been broken down for almost over a century so most Black American children grow up without fathers. So the girls are taught that "Black men ain't no good!" and are taught to be strong and independent. Stereotypically White women are told to be supportive and submissive to their husbands so I guess a lot of White men aren't used to the "go-getter" attitude of Black women. That's my opinion anyway. It's an interesting subject. Kamon |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1309341 United States 11/14/2012 04:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is it rare to see white men and black women together ? Quoting: CigarTigher Ramdom question lol. I rarely see this. Looking at you, I have the same question. I know a couple of white guys with black wives, and they seem quite happy. What are the bitterest complaints black women have of black men? (a)violent, abusive, criminally inclined (b)can't/won't hold a job (c)not faithful - players. Of course men of all races can be guilty of these but, per black women, it's the NORM for black guys. One of my black female friends steadfastly refused to date black guys, ever. She ended up marrying a white guy. What are the bitterest complaints white men have of white women? (a) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex. (b) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex. (c) after the first couple years of marriage, basically no more sex. Again, women of any race can be "withholders" but... stereotypically, white chicks are more guilty of it. So... black woman marries white man.... She is likely to get: nonviolence, financial support, fidelity. He is likely to get: more and better sex than he ever dreamed. It would seem to be the ideal combination! Postscript: I seee more black girl/white guy couples in the Evangelical Christian world, than anywhere else. I do NOT have ANY idea why. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27690403 United States 11/14/2012 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I dated a black girl for about 6 months. She was nuts, but crazy in the sack. I couldn't deal with her insanity anymore, but sure miss the sex. I tried taking a couple other black girls out for dates after that, and they were just plain rude. Three strikes, you're out! Back to white chicks or someone with a level head like the OP seems to be. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27573720 United States 11/14/2012 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it really depends where you live. not so unusual in real cities outside of "the redneck belt". less usual in all rural areas (i think for lack of opportunity in many cases), and the racism factor plays a part too. i honestly could care less about skin color, who she is is more important than her flesh-tone. but i grew up in NYC ghettos, so i tend to be a bit more "color blind" than most |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Postscript: I seee more black girl/white guy couples in the Evangelical Christian world, than anywhere else. I do NOT have ANY idea why." Because it's natural for opposites to attract and then balance each other out. It's how we breed strength and understanding into our future. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. Probably because you have a cute smile. No i am not interested in that way, so we're clear. Beyond the smile it's hard to tell with the makeup. Sure would like to see your NATURAL beauty instead.... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27573720 United States 11/14/2012 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. because your local black men have poor eyesight? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. because your local black men have poor eyesight? SO WRONG but it made me laugh. I suppose i can, since I've been every color at some point here. And i don't take myself too seriously now. |
CigarTigher (OP) User ID: 27057820 United States 11/14/2012 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. Probably because you have a cute smile. No i am not interested in that way, so we're clear. Beyond the smile it's hard to tell with the makeup. Sure would like to see your NATURAL beauty instead.... I don't wear makeup that picture was from a photo shoot. And I knew you werent trying to hit on me. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27573720 United States 11/14/2012 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. because your local black men have poor eyesight? SO WRONG but it made me laugh. I suppose i can, since I've been every color at some point here. And i don't take myself too seriously now. didn't mean to offend anybody, OP is just way cute, i figure poor vision would be the only reason for any straight guy not to. |
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Sharty Mc Bean User ID: 27759800 Netherlands 11/14/2012 05:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Cause you think to yourself. Does that white dude have a black sized cock or does that black lady okay with a white guy size? I don't care about size. You can't control what you are born with. ive got a soft 3 incher for ya |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27747453 Turkey 11/14/2012 05:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because there is an instinct in every human that cause attraction only to one of his/her own race.Thats hardwired in humans because natural laws are against mixing of species. Natural laws urges the separation of species always.This is why different species of same animal doesnt mix with eachother.If otherwise were true we would not see many different species of same animal,we would only see one mixed up species of mongrels.The motive behind seperation is i think to find better species. Skin color doesnt much matter.A white caucasoid person would get attracted to a dark/tanned skinned caucasoid person.For example a Brit man would love an Iranian or Arab.Because both are caucasoid. Unlike that its a rarity to find a caucasoid person gets attracted to a negroid.Same is usually true for other races. |
xxx User ID: 1391487 United States 11/14/2012 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this thread was doomed to get racial ugly fast. but my hunch is that euro guys seen with equatorial girls stand great risk of getting dirked. i see no reason for racism. culturism will cloak itself in racism. but enlightenment bears not the darkness of closed minds and hearts. best of luck to all of us. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27573720 United States 11/14/2012 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because there is an instinct in every human that cause attraction only to one of his/her own race.Thats hardwired in humans because natural laws are against mixing of species. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27747453 Natural laws urges the separation of species always.This is why different species of same animal doesnt mix with eachother.If otherwise were true we would not see many different species of same animal,we would only see one mixed up species of mongrels.The motive behind seperation is i think to find better species. Skin color doesnt much matter.A white caucasoid person would get attracted to a dark/tanned skinned caucasoid person.For example a Brit man would love an Iranian or Arab.Because both are caucasoid. Unlike that its a rarity to find a caucasoid person gets attracted to a negroid.Same is usually true for other races. sorry, that's complete bullshit. brazillians, cubans, puerto ricans, and lots of other latins have couples of "mixed race" in either combination. it has nothing to do with "hard wiring", it's learned bias. |
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geminilion User ID: 12895036 United States 11/14/2012 05:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My son prefers black or darker skinned woman. He's had some gorgeous girlfriends. The girl he is with now is Dominican. Every person has a "type" that they find attractive, nothing wrong with that. ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually. Probably because you have a cute smile. No i am not interested in that way, so we're clear. Beyond the smile it's hard to tell with the makeup. Sure would like to see your NATURAL beauty instead.... I don't wear makeup that picture was from a photo shoot. And I knew you werent trying to hit on me. Well then you have very rare eyebrows. They look "tended to" so to speak. "Because there is an instinct in every human that cause attraction only to one of his/her own race.Thats hardwired in humans because natural laws are against mixing of species." That's not true. Humans are hardwired to MIX the species. That's why people are almost always attracted to the different or unusual. Divide and conquer works against us, while mixing gives us many positive traits. I believe source intended us to become superhumans the good old fashioned way. The same way we bred friendly, healthy, loyal pets. Lovin! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have none of you considered that every race and every religion has positive attributes and if we learn to focus on and share those we will all benefit? Plus it's a lot of fun to learn about other cultures. If everywhere was the same, where would you go for a holiday? |
Vast Deferens User ID: 17509594 United States 11/14/2012 05:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All the white man/black woman relationships I have seen that work have been with women who are more "white" in culture. Hosea 2:2 Plead with your mother, plead: for she is not my wife, neither am I her husband: let her therefore put away her whoredoms out of her sight, and her adulteries from between her breasts; 2:3 Lest I strip her naked, and set her as in the day that she was born, and make her as a wilderness, and set her like a dry land, and slay her with thirst. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27141424 Japan 11/14/2012 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The trend is that black women who go to Uni or get a Masters/PHD settle down with white men. The white girls try to sleep with anyone to get money/raises/grades while the black women are faithful to their lover and value honest hard work in order to get ahead. The white girls mothers would cheat on daddy with a new guy each week while the black girls mom dumped the deadbeat dad and held 3 jobs to make sure her kids had a better lot in life, so the daughters learn from their mothers. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26808965 Australia 11/14/2012 05:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "All the white man/black woman relationships I have seen that work have been with women who are more "white" in culture." I've observed this too. It's likely because it helps bridge the cultural divide. I imagine the leanings towards each others cultures is mutual too a lot of the time. |