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My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.

 
Anonymous Coward
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11/15/2012 07:06 PM
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My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Makes it hard to talk to her even if I want to, Im a grown adult and she talks to me like Im a little kid, and its not unintentional, she knows shes doing it. Sorry for the random thread but anyone else dealing with this? And I have wanted to tell her to stop talking to me like that but Im afraid of what reaction that will cause. And again, sorry for the random thread, just have to vent.
alexisj9

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11/15/2012 07:09 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
May be you should stop acting like a little kid then.
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11/15/2012 07:10 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Is she a clueless white trash alcoholic?
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11/15/2012 07:11 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
she knows you better than anyone else
Anonymous Coward
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11/15/2012 07:11 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
I wonder why....
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11/15/2012 07:11 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Facts are in! Your an idiot.
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11/15/2012 07:12 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Do you live in Mommy's basement?
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11/15/2012 07:14 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
is she a good shag
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11/15/2012 07:15 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
May be you should stop acting like a little kid then.
 Quoting: alexisj9


I really dont. I think shes just using the disability I was diagnosed with as a kid (which I dont believe I have so Im not using that as an excuse) as a reason to talk down to me. And its gotten worse since Ive gotten older even though I am more mature now than I was when I was a teenager.
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11/15/2012 07:19 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Is she a clueless white trash alcoholic?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8788578


No
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11/15/2012 07:22 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
My Mom has passed, God rest her soul, but she had one perspective/point of view and that was that.
It really is a weakness to not be able to respect another's
point of view. But sometimes when you are older and you have seen a lot of life and people's mistakes and consequences,
it is very difficult to watch your own not see what you do .
Another thing is that mothers know all your vulnerabilities.
Sometimes it is their way to toughen you up but sometimes it
is just abusive and you have to object and probably realize there is limits to the relationship.
Morganite

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11/15/2012 07:23 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Im a grown adult Im afraid of what reaction that will cause. sorry for the random thread,
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25861717


^This^ is why she continues...Don't be AFRAID or SORRY!!!!
SPEAK UP like the grown adult you are!

morganite
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11/15/2012 07:25 PM

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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
I know someone who talks to her son like he's a little kid... She's a coddler of the nth degree, it's her only child.

If she fixes your meals, drives you places and does your laundry... you love it and asked for it.

If you're not 'asking for it' by taking advantage of her wanting to 'mommy' you, then she's an idiot.

Either way, good luck.
Who does your thinking?
Morganite

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11/15/2012 07:26 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
May be you should stop acting like a little kid then.
 Quoting: alexisj9


disability I was diagnosed with as a kid (which I dont believe I have
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21601264


GOOD FOR YOU ----A STEP IN THE RIGHT THINKING, NOW ACT ON WHAT U KNOW IS TRUELY AWESOME ABOUT YOU!
morganite
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11/15/2012 07:32 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
How old are you? Do you still live at home? Do they pay for any of your living expenses? If so, she still does have a hold over you and you'll have to wean her gradually by acting more and more responsible for yourself. If you are totally on your own financially, you need to stand up for yourself and actually be a grown up.
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11/15/2012 07:54 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Why do you keep telling us you're sorry? You do know what you're saying right? You don't need to put yourself down so much.

Why do you keep apologizing? Do you do that around her if so I can see why she talks down to you.
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11/15/2012 07:55 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Most parents do that to some extent, just be happy you have a mother, mine passed away a few years ago I would give anything to have her back even if she treated me like a kid =)
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11/15/2012 07:55 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
You should go hug your mom, thank her for giving you life and putting up with all of your crap. Moms are ususally right.
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11/15/2012 07:56 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Why do you keep telling us you're sorry? You do know what you're saying right? You don't need to put yourself down so much.

Why do you keep apologizing? Do you do that around her if so I can see why she talks down to you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10372663


Put himself down? That's called being polite..
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11/15/2012 07:57 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Talk like a little baby back to her then.
Roppee

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11/15/2012 08:04 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
whats your age?then we can talk
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11/15/2012 08:06 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Because she can't let go of her mummys boy,
you will be a mummys boy forever aww isn't that cute.
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11/15/2012 08:20 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Why do you keep telling us you're sorry? You do know what you're saying right? You don't need to put yourself down so much.

Why do you keep apologizing? Do you do that around her if so I can see why she talks down to you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10372663


Put himself down? That's called being polite..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25447468






NNNOOOO apologizing is, saying your sorry is just telling everybody you're a sorry individual. There is a difference.
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11/15/2012 08:26 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
I've never encountered this problem OP...


But what I can tell you is, the other people I have heard say this type of shit were either totally immature, fucking up, or just didn't like their parent in general.
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11/15/2012 08:38 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
post a nude pic of her.
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11/15/2012 08:43 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
post a nude pic of her.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27739465


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eve incognito
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11/15/2012 09:04 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
well just stop letting her get away with it.

patiently, but firmly start calling her on it,every time she talks down on you.

do that every time you see her, until she will either be rady to aknowlidge the fact that ur growing up now, and she should start treating u like aa grown up, or till ull just not visit respect her anymore, or listen to her mean words, coz why u need her disrespect and bad vibes.

i assume ur a teenager or young adult, and its not good for a man to let his momma walk all over him like that, u cant find a nice gf if u are frustrated like that, coz ull develop aversion to women and what not...so save urself a lotta trouble and therapy, and start asserting yourself in ur mamas eyes.
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11/15/2012 09:22 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
show your momma some respect.

she volunteered to have/keep you,
she obviously fed/sheltered you enough to survive
& made sure you have enough education to write/read this post.

no doubt she wiped shit, piss, puke & cheerios off your snot nose.
and kissed your boo-boo's

recognize.
Anonymous Coward
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11/15/2012 09:30 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
lol how old are you?
weasel keeper

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11/15/2012 09:35 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Then quit being one!
She's obviously more aware of your shortcomings than you are!
owhine
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11/15/2012 09:40 PM
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Re: My mom talks to me like Im an idiot.
Your mom appears to be very perceptive.

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