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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1408355 Australia 11/18/2012 05:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1408355 Know what? I wanna fuck you too. Can I whip you but? Not butt, but..... but like I asked? Just but..as in......can I? yes yes do it to me good You little Devil! you love it Does you wanna be dominated? like OP here? Then You are mine. |
andreidita User ID: 4637432 Romania 11/18/2012 05:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How you came to me in this hour i have no idea, but is what what was needed. i will say no more only that what you have said has hit me to my core and i will not lie, it is not fully digested but each time i read is working it's way slowly through my soul. Quoting: *Asherah* :) maybe because it is sunday morning here and sunday is a good day and as your question was asked from the soul it was felt by the soul behind all outer forms and it happened that i was passing along one soul remember glad to be of help |
geminilion User ID: 12895036 United States 11/18/2012 05:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That made me laugh out loud! ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
geminilion User ID: 12895036 United States 11/18/2012 06:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I checked it out of the library, wanted to see what all the fuss was about. It was the one of the worst books I've ever read. Technically didn't read as I couldn't finish it. High comedy with the dialogue. Jeez, if that book can be #1 on the NY Times best seller list anything can. OP there are plenty of people that would be happy to satisfy your need to be a submissive, just get a job at Walmart. ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26795689 United States 11/18/2012 06:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1408355 Australia 11/18/2012 06:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I checked it out of the library, wanted to see what all the fuss was about. It was the one of the worst books I've ever read. Technically didn't read as I couldn't finish it. High comedy with the dialogue. Jeez, if that book can be #1 on the NY Times best seller list anything can. OP there are plenty of people that would be happy to satisfy your need to be a submissive, just get a job at Walmart. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26795689 United States 11/18/2012 06:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh my god the love of my life was dominant....and he was the first to teach me.....i was so dominant myself in certain areas and would never listen......i need to learn how to be submissive to a man i think that it is the last lesson in my life to learn.... Quoting: *Asherah* I had the most dominant man in my life and he and i could never be....he taught me so much and dominated me endlessly....i can't forget it, i crave it and will forever... Quoting: *Asherah* Um, so you already had this type of relationship with the 'love of your life' and you can't forget it? Is it possible that the reason you are seeking out this type of relationship with a new man is because (maybe subconsciously) you wish to recreate those specific memories/feelings from the previous relationship? If that's the case then it sounds like you don't have a psychological need to be in this type of relationship with any man but unresolved inner conflict from a previous experience. You may find a great guy who doesn't feel comfortable or want to treat you the way you currently desire, and that's not a good reason to let it interfere with what otherwise could be a healthy relationship. Work on figuring out why you feel this way and get to the heart of the matter, then see how you feel. |
andreidita User ID: 4637432 Romania 11/18/2012 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12574507 Chile 11/18/2012 06:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't worry, it's the natural way of life... when a woman finds a real man, not the wimpy guys society produces (guys blindly following orders, polititans, religious leaders, etc.), she wants to be dominated by him and serve him. It's not that women should be submissive, it's just that when they find a real man they want to be dominated. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27984161 Australia 11/18/2012 06:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 8075299 United States 11/18/2012 07:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I strongly advise that you, OP address the source of your deep feelings. To best flow with a service to other way of being you must start with yourself. You might save you and your other a lot of grief. To be completely selfish for a moment, to sit in silence where desire of flesh is not present. To best understand the source of the pull. What might outwardly appear to be a service to others calling could be the opposite. To live a life in service to others we must come to terms with our own self. [link to www.youtube.com] The pull of a broken heart is a painful rope to hold onto, for both parties. Best of love to you, a precious soul you are |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27993244 United Kingdom 11/18/2012 07:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/18/2012 02:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes i said it i do....i dreamed of it all my life, i want to be taught how how to be submissive. Quoting: *Asherah* Asherah, obviously youve read that book Fifty shades of Grey or what not.. How about empowering yourself and getting a hobby? It doesnt sound like youre looking for a good guy so I dunno. A man will not complete yourself, only you can. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/18/2012 02:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no it means that it is a whole new experience one that i've always dreamed of and all this time that i thought i wanted to be in control i have secretly all my life wanted to be taken...in every way imaginable and i don't know how to show him that this is what i want without words... Quoting: *Asherah* OP, if you havent done it all by age 25-30 then forget about it. Leave the wild sex to the young.. When you get older, sex is just a warm the body and a release cause you have hobbies now and a life Youll just crash and burn with depression if youre trying to reach out for whatever you didnt get when young. When I was young, I had the sex that porn movies are about, now that Im over 40 I look forward to studying and travel and spending time with those I care about, Seriously, we have to grow up. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20566260 United States 11/18/2012 02:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no it means that it is a whole new experience one that i've always dreamed of and all this time that i thought i wanted to be in control i have secretly all my life wanted to be taken...in every way imaginable and i don't know how to show him that this is what i want without words... Quoting: *Asherah* OP, if you havent done it all by age 25-30 then forget about it. Leave the wild sex to the young.. When you get older, sex is just a warm the body and a release cause you have hobbies now and a life Youll just crash and burn with depression if youre trying to reach out for whatever you didnt get when young. When I was young, I had the sex that porn movies are about, now that Im over 40 I look forward to studying and travel and spending time with those I care about, Seriously, we have to grow up. That is so sad. You never should have to lose a healthy sex life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/18/2012 02:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no it means that it is a whole new experience one that i've always dreamed of and all this time that i thought i wanted to be in control i have secretly all my life wanted to be taken...in every way imaginable and i don't know how to show him that this is what i want without words... Quoting: *Asherah* OP, if you havent done it all by age 25-30 then forget about it. Leave the wild sex to the young.. When you get older, sex is just a warm the body and a release cause you have hobbies now and a life Youll just crash and burn with depression if youre trying to reach out for whatever you didnt get when young. When I was young, I had the sex that porn movies are about, now that Im over 40 I look forward to studying and travel and spending time with those I care about, Seriously, we have to grow up. That is so sad. You never should have to lose a healthy sex life. Thats what I mean, when youve already had a sex life, you dont crawl onto a public forum begging for it.. And OP is no spring chicken, trust me. Ive advised her before on her situation. A healthy sex life does not pimp out and beg on a public forum such as this.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20566260 United States 11/18/2012 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no it means that it is a whole new experience one that i've always dreamed of and all this time that i thought i wanted to be in control i have secretly all my life wanted to be taken...in every way imaginable and i don't know how to show him that this is what i want without words... Quoting: *Asherah* OP, if you havent done it all by age 25-30 then forget about it. Leave the wild sex to the young.. When you get older, sex is just a warm the body and a release cause you have hobbies now and a life Youll just crash and burn with depression if youre trying to reach out for whatever you didnt get when young. When I was young, I had the sex that porn movies are about, now that Im over 40 I look forward to studying and travel and spending time with those I care about, Seriously, we have to grow up. That is so sad. You never should have to lose a healthy sex life. Thats what I mean, when youve already had a sex life, you dont crawl onto a public forum begging for it.. And OP is no spring chicken, trust me. Ive advised her before on her situation. A healthy sex life does not pimp out and beg on a public forum such as this.. Well I agree there. Can't understand the purpose of the post. It was odd. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15782258 Belgium 11/18/2012 02:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am the most shy woman in the world and my face turns red when he looks at me, i think he knows how much i am his.....i just want to know how to make him know that this is want i want. Quoting: *Asherah* plenty of men have a fine nose for submissive women. the majority of these men aren't interested in love, equality, respect or being open to each other. watch where you tread. all the submissive women i've known, had severe issues and a troubled past. they all had tendencies to attract sociopaths in their lifes. i understand the liberation of absolute submission in a religious way... ...but i think some women just want a fantasy ticket back to their young age (careless living as daddy's princess) and defloration (the thrill, anxiety, pain and excitement of being with a lusty male who is stronger than you). other women were conditioned by abuse, very early in their lifes. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/18/2012 02:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am the most shy woman in the world and my face turns red when he looks at me, i think he knows how much i am his.....i just want to know how to make him know that this is want i want. Quoting: *Asherah* plenty of men have a fine nose for submissive women. the majority of these men aren't interested in love, equality, respect or being open to each other. watch where you tread. all the submissive women i've known, had severe issues and a troubled past. they all had tendencies to attract sociopaths in their lifes. i understand the liberation of absolute submission in a religious way... ...but i think some women just want a fantasy ticket back to their young age (careless living as daddy's princess) and defloration (the thrill, anxiety, pain and excitement of being with a lusty male who is stronger than you). other women were conditioned by abuse, very early in their lifes. Yup, and when these women finaly wake up and find their power is in nurturing and caring and inside their heart, not in being a doormat. They are too old and its too late and you end up with the classic case of the crazy cat lady down the street.. Ive seen it too many times, |
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Artaius User ID: 27995781 Germany 11/18/2012 02:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What´s so strange about it. It´s integrating your inner whore, the dark aspects of Lilith. Do it and love it. Most don´t dare to anyway. Who´s to say, that´s wrong? Should take care of their own bizz. There will come a time when you believe everything ends. This will be the beginning [Louis L'Amour] ~ A r c t u r u s |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26612419 Canada 11/18/2012 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's the last part in this teaching in life that i have to experience......i need to learn to be subservient. Quoting: *Asherah* my guess is that 3 seconds into the experience you will be crying foul Or crying the "safe word". Listen OP, what you don't realize is that you are still the one in control. My advice to you is to leave your fantasy as just that. It ain't all it's cracked up to be, no pun intended... |
Fred User ID: 26677941 United States 11/18/2012 03:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's the last part in this teaching in life that i have to experience......i need to learn to be subservient. Quoting: *Asherah* my guess is that 3 seconds into the experience you will be crying foul Or crying the "safe word". Listen OP, what you don't realize is that you are still the one in control. My advice to you is to leave your fantasy as just that. It ain't all it's cracked up to be, no pun intended... Don't count on it. Subspace is the best thing in the world. No one drug holds a candle to it, a spectacular mix of drugs you might experience that ecstacy for one second, believe me I've done it. It is divine, literally, there is a reason so many saints used it as a practice. It is the true essense of religion, when you surrender not only to a person but to the divine. Oxycodone seems like cheap garbage by comparison. But you must do it with a good person, not any old wacko. |