My sister-in-law told me this week she was in love with me, don't know what to do!

yah, no shit! Could you imagine? She has 2 kids i have 1. We both have loving families... what a fucking mess that would be!

i feel for ya'
my wife was hounding me about having a 3some with her friend.

i shut that shit down. too much to lose & not enough to gain.

good luck bro.

You have probably never been to divorce court

Your story reminded me of this joke.



I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me—it was her beautiful younger sister.
My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I always got more than a nice view. It had to be deliberate. Because she never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day her “little” sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I was in total shock, and couldn’t say a word.

She said, “I’m going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me.”

I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to the front door.

I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car. Lo and behold, my entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said, “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.”

And the moral of this story is:  Always keep your condoms in your car.

Source:  Bits & Pieces

WOW!

Your conscience already told you what to do, but you're on here looking for some validation for the wrong decision.

Throw some cold water in your face and move on.

That is very bad advice. He should tell his wife and right away. This same thing happened to my aunt and her husband. Her sister hit on my uncle. He told his wife, they worked things out and are still married. This was yrs ago but keeping secrets is worse than lying if you ask me. If the sister was drunk that is her problem not yours. Let the sisters work it out. Once you tell your wife its not your problem any longer. Weight lifted.

No, but I could always say she was drunk and that she just said she had a crush on me. If it ever became an issue. I think I am better off just forgetting it ever happened!

Actually, I have.

Thing is, people think someone else is the answer to their unhappiness. But those someone elses all have their own baggage too.

...And you are flattered by her words? Take my advice .....
and run as fast as you can from this woman. Her intentions toward you and her sister are not honorable.

She shows no concern for her sister's welfare nor YOURS.

I don't care what her appearance is, she is ready to destroy her sister's and your life.

Is this what you want?

Wake up man.........do the right thing here.

I'll second that. Also love isn't always about needing to jump some ones bones. She may love you for the way you treat her sister. Take it as a complement. If it goes too far politely refuse.

I know, it just threw me for a loop. Wasn't prepared for the situation. didn't know how to handle it at the time... that's why I did not say a word when she said it.

There's only thing to do regarding this complex issue.





Throw one up her.

I think it is best for all, just to forget it ever happened and chuck it up to life experience. I have had women tell me they were in love with me before. Sometimes saying nothing at all means mountains!

Yea..aint karma a bitch?!!! LMAO My ex left me for some lady who wasn't even pretty..just plain jane. Even our Dr said WTF? he said if I didnt make him happy nothing would..and he was right. he came crawling back after a few months begging for me to take him back. The other woman was a liar/gold digger/lazy etc etc etc. I said TOUGH SHIT! You made your bed with the HO go sleep in it. He left her.

Yup, Could happen to anyone.. I guess my biggest question was should i ever tell my wife... probably better off for everybody concerned to just forget it ever happened. Never thought of the fact she could be in love with my millions of dollars!

Oh come on! You know she was drinking. Bury it! Don't embarrass your sister-in-law and ruin the relationshiop between her and your wife.

That's the way to go (OP)

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Last Edited by Wanta10GA on 11/29/2012 09:37 PM

Stop emitting those seduce-ation vibes you are the one who drew her mind to that seducey though pattern you have been bleating out.

Stop getting a rush off others falling all over you...because all toys wear old and ugly.

Behave they self restrain your brain accept this was a two not a one but two.....her and you.

Think of her no more and see her as something other than a fly for seducey sauce...

Turn her into a commode tank flapper in you mind or a mosquito or even a moldy shriveling peach.

It's not my fault i'm good looking everybody tells me I look like brad pitt only better looking.

SIIHP!

huh?

What?? EWWW What did you say to that?

Do her in the butt!!!!

Get up on that 3 way action NOW....

You claim to be spiritual and that you'd never cheat on wifey; how'd we get to 'naughty school teacher' from taht?

Umm....he's a human male? That's my thought.

ewww

You haven't done anything wrong.

She was drunk and hopefully she doesn't remember what she told you.

I would just try and forget about it and move on.

You don't want to think with your penis in this situation. The potential negative consequences of doing so will far outweight any short-term sexual gratification you could obtain.