My sister-in-law told me this week she was in love with me, don't know what to do!

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Nice one.

By the fact that you posted this here and by your responses here, I can see you are already in trouble. You are entertaining a fantasy that will not end well for you. I’m going to give you some tough love brother:

I know that, especially since you are married, you are flattered by the attention. But you wouldn’t act on it right? She’s got you right where she wants you though. Whether you act on it or not now she wins. She’s planted the seed. She’s got you thinking about her. She’ll gauge your reaction and keep you twisting in the wind now with a little wink here, a smile there. If you are like most men you will be stupid and crack. She doesn’t need you to though. Stop playing her game.

Let me let you in on something, most of these types of situations rarely have anything to do with the man. Many women are very competitive; especially sisters and “best friends”. Many women naturally want the man their sister has, or best friend, cousin, woman next door, etc etc. But it’s not really the man they want. What they want is to know they can have, and/or did have, their sister’s or best friend’s man. They want to know they are better than the other females they know.

If you love your wife you wouldn’t even consider acting on such a thing. You’d chalk it up for what it is “female rivalry” and if your sister-in-law approaches you again you’d tell her, with no emotion and in no uncertain terms, that you are flattered but she shouldn’t entertain such notions, that you love your wife. Because if you don’t, even if you don’t act on your sister-in-law’s advances, if she thinks she’s got you thinking about her you are doing your wife dirty. Your sister-in-law and everybody she knows will have less respect for you and your wife. Even if you acted on it and got away with it is your sister-in-law that much better of a person than your wife that she deserves to have that over your wife? If she is, if anybody is, why did you marry your wife in the first place?

All that really needs to be said in this thread is

"Bros before hoes"

That is all

bros before hoes

Sounds boring. you should go see if any good shows are on now.

You just ignore it, pretend she never said it, and she'll probably do the same thing. Just blow it off. People can say anything when they're drunk.

forget about it.

especially if you have kids.

if you don't have kids, that's up to you to decide.

Op, do not mention this, but if she does, tell her you love your wife very much and your wife is the only one for you and that she needs to stop this craziness. You will feel very good about yourself.

Roll Tide!!

I was at a bonfire party with my sister inlaw once. We were hammered and I walked off to take a piss and she came up behind me and was like can I hold it while you pee? I laughed and said sure as a joke but around came the hands.

She tried to write her name as I pissed and was saying this is so cool. We went back to the party and nothing more was ever said of it.

This is my advise, which will differ from most other men on this board:

The next you guys are drinking, and alone, maybe over the holidays, tell her your flattered by what she told you before, but that you really love your wife and are lucky to have her. Also tell her you will not bring this up with her sister and that it will remain between the two of you.

You're flattered, and you're in love with your wife/her sister.

Question... why was you getting drunk with her anyhow? Where was your wife?

I wasnt drinking she was, I dont drink and havent in about 20 years

Lucifer was beautiful also.. look where it got him.

I really like this!

Especially the first part. Men have such weak egos.. so you're good looking.. nothing more than a conquest.

Do it OP, bang her.

It will be revenge for me humping your wife last year when you stayed late at work that one night.

There's no way you're still pissing with someone else's hands on your junk!

Marry them both.

Yeah but you're a man, and it was both yours and his way of coming out of the closet together...different perspective with the OP

This. Sister wives. Hotness.

ha

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