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If you are addicted to porn quit now!!

 
John Doe
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FIVE More minutes Mom..... Please!
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Fuck, I only need 5 minutes.

Cant be addicted!
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Advise from Uncle OP?
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Hey op. YOUR DUMB! I jerk it all the time. Anytime I am not banging the girlfriend. Most days 2 times. Atleast I am not a rapist. Addiction is a behavior. We are all addicted to the internet. I assure you heroin and coke are worse. Think for yourself. Dont let people think for you. Go find a hot tight blonde on the internet and pretent to fuck her with your hand. FEELS GREAT! looser.
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Porn addiction is the epidemic of the 21st century.
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I'm too distracted yet by things such as GLP here and



to try and find a girlfriend.
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Porn Addiction is very real guys!! If you watch porn daily you are addicted!!! I became addicted to this horrible drug at 12 years old im 21 and for three years Ive been trying to quit this shit and Ive had insane withdrawals like crack probably worse because I also had physical withdrawls... its hell!!

Please if you watch porn stop please do it for your self and for your family!! i became heavily addicted because i started watching online porn at 13 years old...Its going to take me a long time of abstinence from both porn and masturbation but i know ill recover!!

The longer you watch it the worse its going to feel quitting..i relapsed many times trying to quit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


its not funny shit guys....I can barely feel emotions still its like being a fucking zombie! I thought it was normal my friend watched it too! i never realized how truly damaging it was until I started to feel like a soul less robot detached from humanity...this was at my lowest point in the addiction like 3 years ago

Now that i havent watched it a much, im rediscovering human relationships all over again!! Im more confident i used to be an anxious, nervous, awkward wreck around people...I was not like this as a kid i was extremely outgoing before!!! people i used to know wonder what happened to me..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


sex is not the problem it self, but porn is because it creates an artifical stimuli, i developed a tolerance for porn it doesnt get me off at all anymore, sadly to say i lost all love and feelings for girls, u become desensetized. this doesnt hapen with real sex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


OP, I have quoted your comments so they can be viewed together with my response.

You are 21 years old, and you openly admit that you were looking at porn since you were a child. Basically, you are openly admiting that you have been online for at least 9 years of your life. Hate to break it to you, but porn is not the reason you lack the ability to create human relationships, but really it is your addiction to being online.

People are always very quick to claim an addiction to excuse a lacking in themselves. You went through puberty and when you should have been out trying to get some pussy, you would just dial up and see anything and everything that you were unable to get in real life.

Quitting pornography is not the answer that you need. It is not the solution to your problems. You are simply trading one addiction for another. By completely avoiding porn you are not learning how to deal with the real issue.

It is like an alcoholic. They quit drinking completely rather than being able to develop self control where they can have one drink and then stop themselves. That is mastery of the self.

Your lack of emotional feeling has nothing to do with porn, it has to do with your inability to completely open yourself to another person due to fear of rejection complicated by societies increasing dependance on lack of personal interaction.

You send emails, you send text messages, you post on forums, you post on social media sites, at the very most, you might make a phone call, but your generation doesn't even like to do that. Is there any wonder you have no interpersonal skills? Go out and talk to people. Guess what, there are nursing homes full of elderly people that would be delighted to have you just sit and talk to their residents. Learn to play cards, it helps. By the way, many of those patients have grand daughters around the same age as you, and if they refuse to come see their grandparents in the nursing home, guess what, they are worthless pieces of shit and you don't want them in your life any way.

There are going to be 5000 studies that will explain why online porn is bad, and is the source of your problems, but that is because pornography is an easy target. It is much harder to get approval for a study to explain why text messaging, emails, video games, and instant entertainment is really to blame.

This is an example.

I own a cell phone. A girl sends me a text message. I get it, I call her. She doesn't answer. She sends me a text message to chat. I call her again. Once again she doesn't answer and sends another text.

Interpretation: She is with other people, and she is so fucking rude that she will send text messages while she should be paying attention to the person she is with and impolite enough to not excuse herself for a moment and take the call and inform her caller she is occupied. But she is not occupied enough to prevent her sending text messages.

My response. After the second call and only getting text message replies, I send 1 text message that reads, If you wish to interact with me, we will do it in person or via a phone conversation, not by text messages. If this is not acceptable, then please delete my number because I don't do text dating.

The same is true for smart phones. I have abandoned 5 girls on dates. I give them one warning. The first time they check their phone I ask if it is an emergency. If they say no, I make a production of turning off my phone and make it known my phone will not disturb our date. The next time they check their phone I get up, I find my server, pay my portion of the tab, and I leave her at the restaurant and drive away. I'm sure who she was texting will be happy to come pick her up. For the record, 2 of those girls I ended up dating, and they never pulled their phones out again.

TO END A LONG STORY SHORT.

Your issue is not porn. It is your excuse. Take command of your life, and when you want a peek at some double anal gang bang sluts feel free to take a perusal, rub one out, and then turn off the electronics, and go interact with the real world.
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What is the difference between wanking regulary and say a guy who has sex with different women regularly? Are you just saying porn is the problem or sex with a different women on a regular basis as well? Im confused.
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sex is not the problem it self, but porn is because it creates an artifical stimuli, i developed a tolerance for porn it doesnt get me off at all anymore, sadly to say i lost all love and feelings for girls, u become desensetized. this doesnt hapen with real sex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


this just proves that your desire for girls is purely sexual. I can't condone porn, but at the same time it sounds like you might have issues that go above and beyond whether you watch porn or not.

love can leave you for a long long time...sometimes it would be years before I found I was truly, honestly attracted to someone to the point I could fall in love...that was due to a very very rocky love relationship in college...it ain't due to watching porn or not...

...that said, watching to much, or doing to much of anything will desensitize you to that which is...
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I was just about to whack it after going through the forum here. Going to leave now in fact! Thinking 'backdoor beauties'?.. what say you OP?!ohyeah
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Porn does very bad shit to you, it's poison and should have never been allowed to get to the point that it's at now. But looking at who controls society, it's easy to see why it became so prevalent. I'm a recovering porn addict, it's hard as shit to stop watching it but considering the effects it can have on people it is sickening that it is allowed to exist.
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You guys need to get a grip. I whack maybe.. once a month? Don't think about it rest of month either. Same a eating a hamburger. Once a month if that. Some of these porn broads should take it easy though! Butthole lips havin' asses!
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Is it not worse to direct the addiction outward and inflict pain upon others?
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sex addiction is the reason we exist
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I like Interraccial Porn, that shit is nasty!!! banana2
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Is it not worse to direct the addiction outward and inflict pain upon others?
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Depends on the kind of porn you are looking at. If you are a sadistic serial rapist who is OK if they get a daily fix of consentual adults poking each other with things on sticks from Kink.com, great.
Child porn-somebody is getting raped, either way.
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Every time I try to stop, I walk around with a woody for a week or so, and all it takes is five or six strokes to do myself. I admit that I have never been able to auto-orgasm without putting my hand on it, but even getting it out to throw a leak takes me to the edge.
I usually break down because I am waking up with a piss hard-on and have been gyrating my crotch into the mattress. Then still half asleep I grab the bone and jack it off.
I end up feeling burned because there was no erotic fantasy involved and it seems like not much more than performing a function.

I have no real understanding of sex at all because I have never been in a sexual relationship that lasted more than a month or two and involving only a few bouts of sex. I haven't sexed any woman up for a terrible long count of years, and there are no prospects in sight.

I am just addicted to dancing with the devil because my life is a total void of love to the extent that even bad company is better than no company at all, when your the loneliest person alive, and everyone around you is remote like screaming across an infathomable gulf of incompatible thought, with daunting social inequality, and discontinuity in physical balance. Then sounding, and only hearing the faint unintelligible echo of my plee for Love out of desperation

I have a woman in my mind that no lady I have met, is able to compare to. And now when I think about actually screwing, I sometimes feel a little ill about the gyno aspect of it, and wonder if I had been married since I became an adult, that we would be totally in love in a way that rarely involved sexual intercourse, and mostly think that is just how I have become due to denial of physical contact from the opposite sex, and I think that it is most likely a 1 in 7 billion shot that I would have chosen the right Woman in the first place.

My medication really made my impudent way back when I was sedated, but the urge was ever present and the frustration felt like being stuffed into a straight jacket that I couldn't get out of. Ten I had friction burns trying to get myself off.

Next time I go up to Heaven, I am going to kill God stright away and save myself the agony of his bad matchmaking.
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Well I suppose people can become addicted to anything really.

I don't think that happens to most viewers of pornography, but I do agree that it is harmful.

Regular viewing of pornography, especially by males, can have several bad effects.

Viewed young, it can screw up a young boy royally. Most every serial killer you can name had an abnormal pornography habit that was picked up at an abnormally young age. Many rapists and others who are violent towards women probably had a larger-than-average porn consumption as well. In a psych class I had read research how it actually interferes with normal psychosexual developement in those not already fully developed.

Pornography can also ruin people for the "real world" sex. There's so much porn out there someone can find their ideal fantasy with the ideal actors, body type, hair color, eye color, everything, and all in the ideal situation. Then, when it comes to real sex, where everything is not so ideal, there may be difficulties achieving the level of physical arousal necessary for sex. If one has gotten so used to their perfect sexual fantasy, anything less no longer cuts it.

And I'm sure there are many other problems it causes. But, just like drugs, violence, theft...there's lots of bad things in the world and we gotta live with 'em.

Anyway OP, good luck and I wish you the best.
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In Greek, the language of the new testament the word for fornication is porneia.
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Simply when animals have orgasm there is dopamine released which signals pleasure and reward.

This is an evolutionarily trait to propagate the species.

Practise makes perfect.
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I jacked off 3 times to this thread!! FUCKING GREAT!!! OP if this thread makes it to a third page I'm fap,fap,fap,fapping to that to!!! ratdance
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I like porn but only because it satisfies my bisexual cravings without being a cheater. Porn has no limitations where fantasies are involved.
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the reason why you're bi is because of pr0n.
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Absolute proven fact #1: Porn is addicting.

Absolute proven fact #2: Porn viwers over time will seek "nastier" and nastier porn to get them off.

Absolute proven fact #3: Avid porn watching can cause lack of erection during regular intercourse.

Absolute proven fact #4: Your mind was not programmed to have access to hundreds of vagina's in the span of a couple minutes. It sends it into overload, and it craves it. This is why sex gets boring, cause you can see so many different appealing images and pussy that real sex is like watching paint dry.


There is literally no benefit to watching porn, and it can seriously, seriously, effect your life.
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What is the difference between wanking regulary and say a guy who has sex with different women regularly? Are you just saying porn is the problem or sex with a different women on a regular basis as well? Im confused.
 Quoting: jerkoff126 6409759


sex is not the problem it self, but porn is because it creates an artifical stimuli, i developed a tolerance for porn it doesnt get me off at all anymore, sadly to say i lost all love and feelings for girls, u become desensetized. this doesnt hapen with real sex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


I believe porn is responsible for a lot of men hating on women now days. They start to see all women as sluts, it's very damaging.

Good luck to you OP!
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Anyone who doesn't think that porn addiction is very real is living in a fantasy world.


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THANKS for posting this it really changed my view of porn! i saw this earlier this year and it makes total sense i experienced everything to a T to what other porn addicts felt and went through its very very real and horrific
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What is the difference between wanking regulary and say a guy who has sex with different women regularly? Are you just saying porn is the problem or sex with a different women on a regular basis as well? Im confused.
 Quoting: jerkoff126 6409759


sex is not the problem it self, but porn is because it creates an artifical stimuli, i developed a tolerance for porn it doesnt get me off at all anymore, sadly to say i lost all love and feelings for girls, u become desensetized. this doesnt hapen with real sex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


I believe porn is responsible for a lot of men hating on women now days. They start to see all women as sluts, it's very damaging.

Good luck to you OP!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28746886


Really? Porn did that? Really? Only Porn?

1. Rap Music - Bitches and Hos constant references
2. Sex and the City - Do you know how many girls try to pattern their lives on that show.
3. Every fucking reality show on television with girls behaving like dumb sluts and whores.

But only porn is to blame right?

Porn Addiction is the new buzz word. There will always be something that take the blame for men not being able to close a deal, meet a girl, maintain a relationship. Porn is an easy target for complaints. It isn't the porn. It is the viewer. If you are so weak that seeing people have sex so controls your life that you can't live without it. You are a pathetic worthless waste of life and you should just sack up and kill yourself.

Here is a reality. Men watch porn. Women watch porn. Women watch porn to get turned on and get off. Sometimes to learn new tricks. Men watch porn because they are seeking stimulation for their masturbation sessions. They are masturbating because they can't get laid. They can't get laid because they have no social skills to attract a mate.
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Porn Addiction is very real guys!! If you watch porn daily you are addicted!!! I became addicted to this horrible drug at 12 years old im 21 and for three years Ive been trying to quit this shit and Ive had insane withdrawals like crack probably worse because I also had physical withdrawls... its hell!!

Please if you watch porn stop please do it for your self and for your family!! i became heavily addicted because i started watching online porn at 13 years old...Its going to take me a long time of abstinence from both porn and masturbation but i know ill recover!!

The longer you watch it the worse its going to feel quitting..i relapsed many times trying to quit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


its not funny shit guys....I can barely feel emotions still its like being a fucking zombie! I thought it was normal my friend watched it too! i never realized how truly damaging it was until I started to feel like a soul less robot detached from humanity...this was at my lowest point in the addiction like 3 years ago

Now that i havent watched it a much, im rediscovering human relationships all over again!! Im more confident i used to be an anxious, nervous, awkward wreck around people...I was not like this as a kid i was extremely outgoing before!!! people i used to know wonder what happened to me..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


sex is not the problem it self, but porn is because it creates an artifical stimuli, i developed a tolerance for porn it doesnt get me off at all anymore, sadly to say i lost all love and feelings for girls, u become desensetized. this doesnt hapen with real sex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850513


OP, I have quoted your comments so they can be viewed together with my response.

You are 21 years old, and you openly admit that you were looking at porn since you were a child. Basically, you are openly admiting that you have been online for at least 9 years of your life. Hate to break it to you, but porn is not the reason you lack the ability to create human relationships, but really it is your addiction to being online.

People are always very quick to claim an addiction to excuse a lacking in themselves. You went through puberty and when you should have been out trying to get some pussy, you would just dial up and see anything and everything that you were unable to get in real life.

Quitting pornography is not the answer that you need. It is not the solution to your problems. You are simply trading one addiction for another. By completely avoiding porn you are not learning how to deal with the real issue.

It is like an alcoholic. They quit drinking completely rather than being able to develop self control where they can have one drink and then stop themselves. That is mastery of the self.

Your lack of emotional feeling has nothing to do with porn, it has to do with your inability to completely open yourself to another person due to fear of rejection complicated by societies increasing dependance on lack of personal interaction.

You send emails, you send text messages, you post on forums, you post on social media sites, at the very most, you might make a phone call, but your generation doesn't even like to do that. Is there any wonder you have no interpersonal skills? Go out and talk to people. Guess what, there are nursing homes full of elderly people that would be delighted to have you just sit and talk to their residents. Learn to play cards, it helps. By the way, many of those patients have grand daughters around the same age as you, and if they refuse to come see their grandparents in the nursing home, guess what, they are worthless pieces of shit and you don't want them in your life any way.

There are going to be 5000 studies that will explain why online porn is bad, and is the source of your problems, but that is because pornography is an easy target. It is much harder to get approval for a study to explain why text messaging, emails, video games, and instant entertainment is really to blame.

This is an example.

I own a cell phone. A girl sends me a text message. I get it, I call her. She doesn't answer. She sends me a text message to chat. I call her again. Once again she doesn't answer and sends another text.

Interpretation: She is with other people, and she is so fucking rude that she will send text messages while she should be paying attention to the person she is with and impolite enough to not excuse herself for a moment and take the call and inform her caller she is occupied. But she is not occupied enough to prevent her sending text messages.

My response. After the second call and only getting text message replies, I send 1 text message that reads, If you wish to interact with me, we will do it in person or via a phone conversation, not by text messages. If this is not acceptable, then please delete my number because I don't do text dating.

The same is true for smart phones. I have abandoned 5 girls on dates. I give them one warning. The first time they check their phone I ask if it is an emergency. If they say no, I make a production of turning off my phone and make it known my phone will not disturb our date. The next time they check their phone I get up, I find my server, pay my portion of the tab, and I leave her at the restaurant and drive away. I'm sure who she was texting will be happy to come pick her up. For the record, 2 of those girls I ended up dating, and they never pulled their phones out again.

TO END A LONG STORY SHORT.

Your issue is not porn. It is your excuse. Take command of your life, and when you want a peek at some double anal gang bang sluts feel free to take a perusal, rub one out, and then turn off the electronics, and go interact with the real world.
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its not funny shit guys....I can barely feel emotions still its like being a fucking zombie! I thought it was normal my friend watched it too! i never realized how truly damaging it was until I started to feel like a soul less robot detached from humanity...this was at my lowest point in the addiction like 3 years ago

Now that i havent watched it a much, im rediscovering human relationships all over again!! Im more confident i used to be an anxious, nervous, awkward wreck around people...I was not like this as a kid i was extremely outgoing before!!! people i used to know wonder what happened to me..
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I'm interested in hearing more of this aspect. Do you really think it causes a loss of emotions?
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God forced me to stop watching it. Everytime i did watch it he would reveal His presence to me so that i would feel as if i didnt had any privacy, he kept doing this and i didnt liked the feeling at all so i stopped. Last time i watched was over 2,5 years ago.
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anything that you find pleasurable can be addicting if you have an addictive personality... some things more than others.

pornography though, has an affect on the brain that's very similar to cocaine.
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Jesus can set you free from porn! Seek Jesus! Repent!


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God bless.
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Jesus can set you free from porn! Seek Jesus! Repent!


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God bless.





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