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reptilicus User ID: 29275426 United States 12/08/2012 12:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me, and it was a blessing in disguise. It forced and motivated me to learn and do things myself. Owned a small lawn service business at 10 years old and was able to buy my own equipment with money earned. Took classes and became a Taxidermist making $45 an hour at 15 Rebuild engines at 17 Still own my own business Cons: Never learned to converse with people face to face. And to this day, 50 years old, have only had, and still have one friend. |
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mopar28m User ID: 14265444 United States 12/08/2012 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My dad died when I was 7. It was hard, he wasn't around to protect him from my so-called mother, he wasn't there to take my fishing every weekend he did before he died, wasn't there on my wedding day to walk me down the aisle. Hardly a day goes by that I don't think about him. vaccinefreehealth blogspot com The risk far outweighs any benefit as the risk will vary from child to child. facebook.com/graphixyourway |
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TenStar'd User ID: 29294236 United States 12/08/2012 12:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me, and it was a blessing in disguise. It forced and motivated me to learn and do things myself. Quoting: reptilicus 29275426 Owned a small lawn service business at 10 years old and was able to buy my own equipment with money earned. Took classes and became a Taxidermist making $45 an hour at 15 Rebuild engines at 17 Still own my own business Cons: Never learned to converse with people face to face. And to this day, 50 years old, have only had, and still have one friend. That brings tears to my eyes ... I learned that Love Hurts and I hurt so bad because Of Love I choose, let not others get too close. "One Friend in Trust At Arms Length Of Love, Is The Worthiness Of All That I Have To Give" Last Edited by TenStar'd on 12/08/2012 12:49 AM God does not test us, He strengthens us. For if we are fully in Faith, He girds the armor evermore. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 29275426 United States 12/08/2012 12:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me, and it was a blessing in disguise. It forced and motivated me to learn and do things myself. Quoting: reptilicus 29275426 Owned a small lawn service business at 10 years old and was able to buy my own equipment with money earned. Took classes and became a Taxidermist making $45 an hour at 15 Rebuild engines at 17 Still own my own business Cons: Never learned to converse with people face to face. And to this day, 50 years old, have only had, and still have one friend. We just walked out when I was seven and I said by, and I never thought about him again after that. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 29319679 United Kingdom 12/08/2012 01:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My dad died when I was 7. Quoting: mopar28m It was hard, he wasn't around to protect him from my so-called mother, he wasn't there to take my fishing every weekend he did before he died, wasn't there on my wedding day to walk me down the aisle. Hardly a day goes by that I don't think about him. My dad died 3 years back and was there for me my whole life i'm 35 now. He got cancer and it was something i have never experienced before or ever want to again. My dad was so strong in both mind and body but the cancer killed him before he died. within weeks of finding out he was so ill and weak. I will never believe in god or believe any thing could sit back and let that happen and take my dad away. There is no god we are on our own. I know how u feel and im sorry for your loss too |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7736082 United States 12/08/2012 01:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Split wit my Mom when I was around 9-10 years old. For about a year He would meet up with me on some weekends and we would hangout, but then one day he never made contact again. My Mom didnt know where he lived because we would meet at a gas station when I was dropped off and I was to young to know the area. It was kind of a big blow because I dont have much family on my mothers side. I still think about him from time and time and have tried finding him via phone books, facebook, etc with no luck. Not sure if it had any negative effects on me since I will never know the person I would have been if he was still in my life. But I did dip into a gambling problem in my late teens which I still struggle with from time to time. I do have social issues. But other then that I'm a normal being with a 40 hour job, a wondeful girlfriend and a beautiful daughter. |
Mamalooney User ID: 6336798 Netherlands 12/08/2012 01:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My dad died when I was one. Mom never remarried and had nothing good to say about him. Growing up I had only bad experiences with men. As a child I always seemed the kid that child abusers found. From strangers on the street to leaders of camps. Made me into a very angry teenager. The things I did to piss people off....! And her. I also was tremendously egoistic as a teen. Always after my own pleasure and trying out boyfriends left, right, front and center. It took me up to thirty untill I found myself healing. So I guess you can say that not having a dad growing up left me very unstable and wounded in my soul. For me I mosly missed the protection and somebody who will stand up for you. Peace. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25028055 United States 12/08/2012 01:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Many fathers are not allowed to be a father, only a part time parent and generally a misundertood one at that. Men feel much more deeply about their children than they are given credit for. In many cases the seperation emotionally damages the man. To the point were sometimes they think the kids would be better off without them and many during the times they do see the childrn have trouble always having to say ggodbye over and over. For many men it is to much. As you get older think about what your fathers went through. Most men do not have kids if they dont want them. In most cases the men would have preferred to have been there. But, alas, sadly women make this almost impossible. With the help of the courts they generally suck every penny out of him, and use him up completley emotionally and financialy for the womens benefit. Men go through a hell most children never understand until very late in life. The facts are in, most men do not leave, they are forced out and destroyed. It is no wonder many just simply find a hole to crawl into and disappear. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25028055 United States 12/08/2012 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com] Many fathers who feel increasing anger at their marginalization in their children’s lives respond by leaving. Ill-equipped to deal with their emotions and unable to express them, they choose to avoid them. The pain of being repeatedly reminded of what they have lost, drives them away. They push away from the pain and anger caused by a situation they cannot control and in the process abandon the children they love. For those who need understanding and somtimes do not understand. This article and many of the comments will help you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18892243 United States 12/08/2012 01:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Over 70% of divorces and seperations are initiated by the mother. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25028055 Many fathers are not allowed to be a father, only a part time parent and generally a misundertood one at that. Men feel much more deeply about their children than they are given credit for. In many cases the seperation emotionally damages the man. To the point were sometimes they think the kids would be better off without them and many during the times they do see the childrn have trouble always having to say ggodbye over and over. For many men it is to much. As you get older think about what your fathers went through. Most men do not have kids if they dont want them. In most cases the men would have preferred to have been there. But, alas, sadly women make this almost impossible. With the help of the courts they generally suck every penny out of him, and use him up completley emotionally and financialy for the womens benefit. Men go through a hell most children never understand until very late in life. The facts are in, most men do not leave, they are forced out and destroyed. It is no wonder many just simply find a hole to crawl into and disappear. True a lot of times. Happened to my brother, he went thru hell and tried suicide more than once because of it. There are many kids that have no clue how much their dads love and want to be with them. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25028055 United States 12/08/2012 02:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Over 70% of divorces and seperations are initiated by the mother. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25028055 Many fathers are not allowed to be a father, only a part time parent and generally a misundertood one at that. Men feel much more deeply about their children than they are given credit for. In many cases the seperation emotionally damages the man. To the point were sometimes they think the kids would be better off without them and many during the times they do see the childrn have trouble always having to say ggodbye over and over. For many men it is to much. As you get older think about what your fathers went through. Most men do not have kids if they dont want them. In most cases the men would have preferred to have been there. But, alas, sadly women make this almost impossible. With the help of the courts they generally suck every penny out of him, and use him up completley emotionally and financialy for the womens benefit. Men go through a hell most children never understand until very late in life. The facts are in, most men do not leave, they are forced out and destroyed. It is no wonder many just simply find a hole to crawl into and disappear. True a lot of times. Happened to my brother, he went thru hell and tried suicide more than once because of it. There are many kids that have no clue how much their dads love and want to be with them. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3064678 Canada 12/08/2012 02:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I will say is this, I have only one father, he is the father of all creation and I'm trying real hard to get to know him. As for my dad he isn't breathing any longer and neither is my dog of 18 years. As I search my heart it is a sad, sad but trustworthy statement, of the two I miss my dog the most. You see my dog loved me and I him, at one point I may have loved my dad, sadly he lover the bottle more. Destroy the family unit, just part of the evil ones plan. |
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