My Wife Is Going Through The Change. SHE IS ABSOLUTELY BATSHIT CRAZY!

Take it from someone who went through the batshit crazy, it isn't easy on her either. Have her go get her hormone levels checked or take, 5htp.

Menopause is miserable. Up one minute, down the next and agitated. It's like having someone run their finger nails down a chalk board nonstop.

Be patient and kind or she may run you thought the wood chipper! LOL

Enjoy, it only lasts 5 to 10 years~!

"...or for worse."

I'm sure there is plenty of information out there regarding diet, vitamins, etc., that can probably help ease some of her discomfort.

Last Edited by Zuzu's Petals on 01/30/2013 08:51 PM

That's what happens when you get married. and it gets even better, no sex! Don't even ask her for it! But yeah take her to find a natural hormone replacement therapy clinic in your area. OR ask the damn doctor. None of that horse estrogen shit, don't let her take that! Too fucking dangerous! Google natural alternatives to hormone replacement therapy.

I'm going through the changes but I'm not bat shit crazy.

Welcome to my world OP.
It doesn't stop anytime soon either. All I hear is "I'm Hot" nonstop for almost 2 years now. Air conditioner going full tilt when it's perfectly fine out. It's best to just ignore her...maybe she'll go away. I spend alot of time in my shop, even if I have nothing to do. If she start growing a mustache or sideburns, I'm outa here.

Time to dump the old bitch. It's only going to get worse.

Same here...52...NO hot flashes...NO weight gain...NO mood swings...I think UNHEALTHY, overweight, Rx medicated women suffer ALOT more! Two years into it...I'M FINE!

I theorize that you giving oral to your wife so she regularly orgasms would stabilize the batshit crazy hormones.

Look at it this way, even if it does not help, it can't hurt.

I wish my husband would have understood...he didn't and we separated...a little understanding goes a long way...love her..all I needed was an ear...I knew that I was not normal, but didn't know why or how to control it...now that it's over...he wishes that he didn't leave...educate yourselves

Y'all can't seem to get through your tiny little minds that it's all part of growing older. Do you honestly think that you're not gonna get old? Don't worry, you are and there's nothing you can do about it.

Don't give me this shit about how you all think you deserve a hot, young wife when you look like old dried up beef jerky yourselves. No decent hot young woman wants a flabby old man who looks like he's ready to die the minute he gets hard.

Come on! You know it's BS. You married her, fuck, learn to live with it!

women all go nuts it is who they are

52 is not old. In fact, I know a number of women this age who are very attractive.

Batshit crazy no doubt stems from hormone swings.

Make her orgasm to release the craziness, in all seriousness, this should calm her down.

Why not try to take the long view. You’ve been together this long for a reason, and you want to be close for the rest of your lives together. In the heat of the moment, remind yourself why you have chosen to stay with her, and in a calm moment you might even want to share that with her. Im sure there have many times you drove her crazy yet she stuck it out. Isnt that what a good relationship is after all.

Love this! Yep, them old men with a 20 year old hanging on their arm sure look much better now don't they? Every time I see that I have to laugh. For one thing having a young woman on their arm is like holding a magnifying glass up to their wrinkles and only emphasizes the dentures! It makes them look that much older. And another thing, she is probably HOPING you'll die the minute you get hard! That way she can collect your life insurance the minute you pass through to the other side...lol

FYI, I weighed (still weigh) 120 lbs and I'm 5'4". I can still turn heads at over 50 and yes my hormones played horrible tricks on me for a few years also!

She will get through this just as you will. Go get her some 5htp and she will get some much needed sleep at night and so will you!

Been there. It will get slightly better in a few years! After 5 years my wife has gotten close to normal just more emotional than she ever was before.

Try fisting. Seriously.

52 in great shape, no RX crap, and batshit crazy too. I do not get it, I cry over beer commercials for no reason. I was always the strong stable one. Now I can not remember my phone # or how to spell my name half the time and had to change my glasses three times last year and still can not see my food.

To the judgmental bitchy snob who blamed it on being unhealty, fat and drugs, you sound more crazy than the ones you judged, you are just too crazy to see it. Menopause war LOL.

And for the sex cure / treatment, you would have to be brave, well armed and stupid to try it at this time. I told my old man to go find a younger model for the weekend. You just do not feel sexy after not sleeping for two weeks. The insomnia alone will drive you crazy.

My sympathy too all of us and our loved ones and the innocent bystanders in the crossfire LOL

many women are going through menopause at an early age

like 30 to 35!

think about the girls they are having their periods early like at 10!

think about the older ladies... they are gong through the change at an early age...

get your hormones checked.. get back in balance

CALLING ALL BLACK MEN...EMERGENCY IN AISLE 7....

At least yours has a reason...

this is all some funny/scary stuff!!!

research this

Bioidentical Hormones-The Side Effects by Victoria Marie

every woman is different

some go through the change early some go through it later

if you are a women ask your grandmother and your mom how old they were when they went through the change mostly likely you will too

You all have been given a Hollywood load of shit! You get old..end of story!

Yikes! Don't scare me.

this goes for men too...

most men at the age of 30 to 35 they have low testosterone

you have stress at work

you will get fat
have sickness
not much into sex
cant last during sex..

and men have PMS as well

men go through a change too

True...if you take her to a doctor, they will give her hormones made from pregnant mares, and in the end it is very bad for the health. If she takes hormones, make sure they are natural bioidentical hormones...you can google them and find a doctor in Canada who will prescribe them for her.

You can also look into talking to someone at the health food store, and they can recommend natural ingredients that will help her with the hot flashes, and some emotional problems. Make sure that you try and be there for her...not against her. Tell her you are trying to understand. I know it must be very hard for you also. Some women really do seem like they are batshit crazy! LOL Try and find a book at the health food store on the situation, which might give you a little more insight into what she is going through, and what may help her...and help you keep your sanity! Good luck!