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I am sad and lonely. I'm a German Christian in love with a married German girl. I'm now going to get drunk. Please help me!
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[quote:agrippa 1091500:MV8xMTgyODYyXzE5MTcwNjY4XzY4QzBBOEU2] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1091468] You are being given a trial. Which is more important to you, the woman or God? Choose wisely. Leave that woman. Find another woman to love that is not married. Don't get drunk like the heathens. I know you are right, my friend. But you also know how it is. If you ever saw, ever knew this woman, I would ask you: Could you do the same? As a Christian I know you want the truth. Here it is...the devil will exploit men's weaknesses. He knows how men are attracted to beautiful looking women, and he uses such women to try to make Christians betray the Lord. Do not fall for it. Be strong. Be wise. Walk away from this woman. This will earn you great merit as a Christian. [/quote] Oh boy, I know you're right. I'm going to drink some beer (tomorrow is free from work) and think about this. My local chucrch pastor is hard to reach on Tuesday, and I'm not really a chuchgoer -- you have to pay tax here to be a member of a a chuch, which I find wrong. Nonetheless I could away ask a Catholic priest for free what his advice is -- a bit creepy because I know they make you say things that absolve you without helping. There are no true Christians in my vicinity -- I mean folks who really know Jesus. Those who say they do are only after the money. That's why my town has the biggest psychiatric unit in this part of Germany. Antidepressants? They hand them out like chocolate smaries. [/quote]
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I've been here for months, and I try to do my best to help GLPers. Sometimes I'm a bit aggressive and rude. I'm sorry. I'm having a tough time.
I'm actually half German, half New Zealand. Been here for ten years. I'm a graphgic designer, losing contracts by the day because my sector is sinking -- and my clients know I'm slipping into depression.
This woman (an American) I love is younger than I but is happily married. I like her husband (he knows and respects me). He's kind of pleased that I can give her what he can't (he's quite old). But I'm not as wealthy as he. Now it is tearing me apart.
She is not using me. We are genuinely in love. She is 42 and I am 46.
I know that this is "immoral" but all three of us need each other. I've prayed to Jesus, but get no reply. It seems that all is fine by him. But somehow I'm torn apart by grief whenever she tells me she can't visit because "hubby" says she must accompany him on business. I feel like a second-class lover.
Sometimes he INSISTS that she spend a week with me. Then I don't know whether she truly loves me or whether I'm just being used to save their marriage.
Must go out for a beer. Would appreciate your comments, guys (and girls).
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