Users Online Now:
1,296
(
Who's On?
)
Visitors Today:
316,622
Pageviews Today:
420,567
Threads Today:
128
Posts Today:
1,896
03:37 AM
Directory
Adv. Search
Topics
Forum
Back to Forum
Back to Thread
REPLY TO THREAD
Subject
What Is The Biggest Problem YOU Have Going On In Your Life Right Now That You Need Help With?
User Name
Font color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Indigo
Violet
Black
Font:
Default
Verdana
Tahoma
Ms Sans Serif
In accordance with industry accepted best practices we ask that users limit their copy / paste of copyrighted material to the relevant portions of the article you wish to discuss and no more than 50% of the source material, provide a link back to the original article and provide your original comments / criticism in your post with the article.
[quote:sharlock 13178061:MV8xODIyODUwXzMwNjkyNzA4X0Q5OEIxQTYz] [quote:Anonymous Coward 14111443:MV8xODIyODUwXzMwNjc2NzgzX0I2RDI2MEQ1] i have a fairly asimmetric face, so girls just dont look at me and if they do they look with hate in his eyes, dont know why. Also i am very skinny so the thing is im 25 years old and only had a girlfind when i was 20 years old for one month. im a 4th year psycolohist student and work in an insurance company. Every day i feel more hopeless, more dissapointed at myself. So i want someone to hug me. I want someone to kiss. im such a loser. bye. [/quote] [color=darkblue]No you are not a loser! Unfortunately the position you find yourself in is not even unusual, in fact it is a more and more common thing nowadays. I mentioned to someone else that loneliness and a sense of disconnect is one of the leading causes of depression and a by product of our society nowaday which does not encourage a sense of community anymore. So many lonely people looking for love now and thinking that they must be inadequate in some way because they haven't found it; and that is just not true. You are obviously smart but just reading your post I sense your disatisfaction with yourself and this lack of love for yourself is projected hon, making it even more difficult to find someone because of the lack of confidence that follows. Think of this time right now, without a partner, as your chance to learn to appreciate yourself. The strangest things happen when people stop being so critical of themselves. When people decide to focus on their strengths and learn to like who they are, the need for someone else actually subsides and yet... others become attracted to you. This might seem like a bad egs to many but it makes the point I want to make. People like Napoleon and Hitler were not goodlooking men perse. Certainly not great in stature, but even men like these, with great defects in their personalities, attracted others to them because of their overwhelming confidence and self assurance. For someone like you who is nice and smart and who doesn't feel the need to dominate and rule the world (hopefully lol!)this type of self assurance will most certainly attract others to you. It isn't easy to turn your feelings of self loathing around but forcing yourself to talk to people and go out more is where I started. Also, know that you are wonderful. We all are, and you do have a mate out there but she is likely somewhat shy too and also working on herself right now. This time is not proof you do not have what it takes to find a soulmate, it is actually your time to grow as a person, so when you meet her you both will be happier and not be carryiihng the excess baggage you would have if you met her right now with all your insecurities in tow. Good luck!:hf:[/color] [/quote]
Original Message
I know times are tough and money is tight. I wanted to see what people are having problems with and see if I could help anybody here with anything. Whether its your weight, your relationship, money, lack of job get your message out there.
We can all chime in and help each other out in this process and something good can come out of this experience. We can do this everyday. Just look for my threads with a similar tone and participate so we can start a movement where we as a crowd help each person individually by using our collective wisdom, experience and guide each other in the right direction...
My problem is I want to help the world but I am only one man...
Pictures (click to insert)
General
Politics
Bananas
People
Potentially Offensive
Emotions
Big Round Smilies
Aliens and Space
Friendship & Love
Textual
Doom
Misc Small Smilies
Religion
Love
Random
View All Categories
|
Next Page >>