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So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
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[quote:eve incognito 26264034:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkzMTIzXzg5QjEzNDcz] [quote:Anonymous Coward 26282656:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyNzczXzQ4RjdEQkUx] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1595910:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyNTg0XzUyOEY4NkUz] [quote:luckyophelia:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyNTQ1Xzg5M0RGOTc5] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1595910:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyNDg5XzJERkM5MDY5] [quote:luckyophelia:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMzk2X0ExMTdBQTND] [quote:luckyophelia:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMzYwX0NGRUMxM0M2] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1595910:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMzI0X0FDRUQxMkRC] [quote:luckyophelia:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMjQ4X0YyQzM5MzQx] [quote:Anonymous Coward 26283284:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMTc0X0QyMUUzMkYw] [quote:luckyophelia:MV8yMDI4NTg3XzM0MDkyMTA2XzczNTFDNTFC] and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up [/quote] No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges. [/quote] well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange. [/quote] OK, it all makes sense now. you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person. you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni [/quote] actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol [/quote] i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever... [/quote] well now you're talking. wise cracking aside, is the boy like.. i dunno, a bit.. autistic? (for lack of a better word, this is not the word i am looking for) i mean.. it IS a very practical gift. is he creative? does he wax all poetically when he dotes on about you? i am assuming his dating history consists of you, and his ex, if he was a virgin for 9 months after you met. what i am getting at is like.. he may not be a very thoughtful or romantic person, in which case you can't really expect a thoughtful or romantic gift, and just because movies an shit play up that kinda romance, in all reality, if it comes down to a bad or serious situation, one may be better off with someone who is practical and logical minded. [/quote] I don't think he's autistic. He says he's ADD though. He grew up in a very religious household. He dated a woman in her 40s for about 9 years before meeting me. He doesn't really watch movies either so I do have different ideas on certain things. honestly and truly though, i was just expecting something a little more romantic, or at least the card to say something romantic, i dunno... [/quote] again, autistic is not what i meant.. let me rephrase that.. emotionally retarded. let me rephrase that again.. not in tune with that lovey dovey poetic part of the human psyche. being romantic is like being tall, it's really hard to fake it if you were not born that way. [/quote] I disagree... and excuse the way I phrase this. A woman that gets bent over the table and has her hair pulled while getting pounded from behind, dreams of being with somebody more romantic. A woman showered with wine, flowers and romance dreams of being bent over the table , having her hair pulled while getting pounded from behind. Women want what women don't have, and don't want what they do have. :hf: :sideways: [/quote] and you think a man cannot be both romantic and amazing in bed, (over the table)? aw so you never meat my husband? [/quote]
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I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people
...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.
What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
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