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[quote:Anonymous Coward 26048166:MV8yMDQ2MDA1XzM0Mzc3OTE1X0Q3OUJDOUNC] [quote:scorpio66:MV8yMDQ2MDA1XzM0Mzc3MjU3XzUxQUM4MjAy] personally, i don't think you should have violated his privacy, but, yeah, he's guilty and trying to make you feel bad for it so you forget he's a cheater. guess you were right to not trust him. so now, don't be played a fool and move on. [/quote] This ^ Whenever a girl gets a ''gut'' feeling...it is usually correct. The problem is, she follows her gut, finds the info that in which she felt untrusting of, and then asks others if she was in the wrong to look in the first place, and asks if what he's doing is wrong. Bottom line: Women need to follow their gut. You did, you found out, and you confronted him, he blew up because he's doing EXACTLY what the other wrote above. Move on... Nothing wrong with animal sharing, it happens. If one feels they need to start peeking into cell phones and emails (just saying), then you know what? You have your answer. You do not trust...and that is the answer to what one needs to do to either move on, or present the distrust issue and see if the relationship can heal. [/quote]
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I need to ask as many people as possible the following questions:
1) After dating my boyfriend for a year and a half - i felt the need to look in his phone. I never did it before, but something inside of me told me to look. Did i commit a sin?
2) In the phone i see a message he sent to another girl - asking her when he can see her, and inserted a smiley face. I was shocked and upset on a level words can not express to see him say that to another girl. Apparently he was talking to her behind my back and it seems like he had plans to see her too (behind my back). I was so upset - should i be?
Here is some added information - i have to share my dog with an EX. Which means me and the EX have to text/talk on the phone in order to arrange pick up and drop off times for the Dog. I never tell my EX i want to see him, in fact, i hate having to talk to him so much that i usually text his new girlfriend instead just to avoid talking to him.
Does this give my current boyfriend the right to see another girl behind my back?
My current boyfriend tells me that it is NOT NORMAL for me to share my dog with an EX - is this true? Am i NOT NORMAL because I broke up with an EX and we agreed to share the dog?
Should my current boyfriend be able to talk to other girls and tell them he wants to see them just because i share my dog with an EX?
Please give me some advice - i can use as much help as possible.
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