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Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce?
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 27586925:MV8yMDQ4NTA4XzM0NDI0OTU3X0QxMjhERDU=] My personal experience is as follows: Married for almost 29 years now. After 3 kids and 12 years - got vasectomy. Lost desire to have sex with wife - or anyone else - just lost interest. Ten years after vasectomy wife and I discussed situation. She did not want kids but wanted to have sex with someone who could possibly get her pregnant. Vasectomy affected both of us. Had vasectomy reversed. Not shooting blanks now. Sex life is back. BOTTOM LINE Vasectomy/tubal ligation will have emotional effects you don't expect. I was expecting to feel turned loose and fancy free. When you mess with something as basic as procreation the results are now always what you expected and the effects are far reaching. Stay with your wife and family. Divorce is never final. You will have a relationship with the mother of your children for the rest of your (or her) life. Stick with your family. Your commitment is still valid. If she chooses to leave then you can move on with a clean heart and mind. Peace and love to you [/quote]
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She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now.
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