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whines of a stepmother
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 27858914:MV8yMDUzMTY4XzM0NTA5MjM1XzZCOTA1MzZG] [quote:ANHEDONIC:MV8yMDUzMTY4XzM0NTA5MTc2Xzk0QjM3OTg4] Children go through stages during their development and it must be somewhat challenging for the child to be coping with two different sets of 'parents' and living situations. Either you can show some patience/tolerance and work through the circumstances/situation or you are free to make the decision to remove yourself from the circumstances altogether. If you love the man you are with I would encourage you to stick it out and try to foster the best relationship you can with the child for the sake of all involved. Just because you are not the child's mother doesn't mean you can serve as a positive example or role model for the girl when she's living with you and her father. :goofy thum::clappa: i love that good advice [/quote]
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I am a stepmother to a very let's call her tenacious little girl we will call her Alyssa. I love her to death but dealing with all that comes with her is going to kill me. Her mother is a extweeker psycho her stepfather thinks hes her dad even though he is black and has even done dna proving he is not. Her biological dad my now husband has been im her life since she was 2 i have been there since 2.1/2 she is now 6 so thats the back story so now i am in between a stupid custody battle her dad wants more time her motherwants more time and i just want to scream. They both overcompensate trying to be the better parent and i am stuck dealing with a little brat who throws tantrums and demands everything. People always tell me that i know what i was getting myself into um no i didn't i had no idea what a cluster fuck of ridiculous i was getting myself into i love them both but i feel like this is too much for him to expect me to desl with and the best part is he doesn't care. At all about how i feel being a stepparent is the worst job ever and as much as i can see the positives all i feel is the negatives
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