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How do I become a real "bad boy" after decades of being a "nice guy"?
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[quote:mk ultra 5813027:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTk0MzkxX0UzQTgzQ0M0] [quote:Anonymous Coward 7061022:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTk0MjY1XzYyOUY4RTI1] [quote:Anonymous Coward 28089709:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTk0MTY4XzFFNjg0Q0Mx] [quote:mk ultra 5813027:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTkzODg4XzEyRUQ2Mjc5] [quote:Anonymous Coward 28089709:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTkyNjQ2X0VCQzI0QTFE] [quote:mk ultra 5813027:MV8yMDU3MTQwXzM0NTkyNDE5XzU4RTc3QTc=] [quote:Anonymous Coward 28089709:MV8yMDU3MTQwX0Q0QTQyOTkx] I'm sick and tired of wasting time, money, and effort trying to get pretty girls in the sack. [b]I'd much rather just have one waiting on me, nurturing me, feeding me and fucking me. [/b] It seems that some guys get that without trying and I need to learn how. I'm damn angry at all the time I wasted, and I blame it both on girls giving mixed signals and my failure to read them and be whatever I need to be. I want to be as bad as necessary, but I'd like to avoid fistfights and jail. Just bad enough to hook the girls with minimal effort and keep them fucking me. And I don't want the loser "bad boy that's really nice" approach. It doesn't seem to work. [/quote] I basically do what I high lighted above for my hubby. I am a devoted wife and have the luxury of staying home, he is my life and I do everything and anything for him. you need the following: - find a girl you like, become friends, best friends... then... - honesty - always be honest, even if she pissed you off, tell her, she can take it. Never keep secrets, secrets kill relationships. - sense of humor - make her laugh (and not with your penis) - take care of her. yes. I said take care of her; emotionally, physically and spiritually by teaching her, in other words, be the man of the house and lead, pay for everything like a gentleman. Don't live beyond your means and go broke, but always try to give her the sun, the moon and the stars. - find a girl who has had very few lovers and is pure in heart, mind and soul(virgins are probably scarce), the more lovers your mate has, the more bad I_AM_AN_ILLITERATE_RACIST I_AM_AN_ILLITERATE_RACIST and negative energy they potentially will have and potentially infect you with their bad vibes. - make love to her right (ideally after marriage), some nights slow, other nights make it saucy and have fun, role play sometimes, it makes things interesting. - Once in a while take her shopping. Not all the time, just surprise her every now and then. Its like reverse retail psychology, if she associates shopping with your reltionship being happy and healthy, she will not shop when she is depressed. - Learn new hobbies together. - No need to be a bad ass or treat any woman bad. If you are just true and honest with a girl as you would be a guy friend that you like hanging out with, she will feel like your 'equal' even though you are making all the calls in the relationship anlooking out for her best interests. - Women, no matter how successful or independent, deep down inside want to be taken care, protected and feel safe with a guy. If you can give her those simple things, she will be putty in your hands. - most important thing of all is the offer of your friendship. - Love is friendship set on fire. - When all else fails above, you need a fat wallet and a big c*ck. :tomato: [/quote] I tried this approach many times, with a bit of success. There's a girl I love deeply and have taken care of emotionally and physically for 20+ years. She thinks I'm "too needy" sexually, and yes - she's the best in bed. She wants to be my best friend forever, but without sex, it's not worthwhile, and she always is looking for greener pastures. She'll have sex a few times a year if I pressure her enough, but she says it repulses her. Now I need to find someone that's hotter than her and soon, and keep her. I never abandon friends though. [/quote] aw, that is too bad. Here's the deal, when you are looking for 'something' you usually don't find it. What I mean is, this may be a great opportunity for you to do a little soul searching (for lacl of a better phrase) on what you really want out of life. Other people cannot make us happy. Contrary to what the movies tell you, you are not 'completed' just because you have a mate/spouse. You need to do some deep exploring about why you want what you stated above in your original post. You need to really learn how to LOVE yourself. And I mean really love yourself. Respect yourself. Take good care of yourself. And this doesn't mean someone else does everything you need/want. I went through a period of time once when I wanted no one. I just wanted to be me, and take care of me. In this process, I realized how much I loved me, how much I respected me. And how much I needed me, just me, that no one else was going to come along and 'complete' me. I know it may sound confusing, but when I came out of this experience I was able to project an entirely different me and I did it naturally... it was the real me. Then things just happened. Met the man of my dreams, and we traveled the years together exploring and discovering each other with me being the true me, no pretense. I loved me fully, so I was able to love him even more. He could tell I was a happy person, because of that, he just wanted to be around me. There is something of mystery about people who don't need anyone to make them happy, others are just attracted to that. It worked for me. I got what I felt was right for me in a spouse and my hubby got what he wanted, a happy, devoted wife. Anyway, best to you in your search. Always keep the faith, there are lots of good women out there, don't believe most of what you read here, its depressing. I still believe men are the best thing ever, I will always have the utmost respect for the good men in this world, despite how many hate threads get posted about them. You guys rock, most of you, anyway. :5a: [/quote] That might be good advice - if I was a girl, but I'm not. Real MEN NEED SEX - it's visceral. We only have one X chromosome and always need another, and we bond through sex. We also DO feel complete, and it's the only time we do. I've done the hard work of soul searching and it's take years, and if I had it to do over, I'd just do lots of sex and drugs. It's like seeking a phantom. Sex with or without drugs is the ultimate connection and enlightenment. [/quote] Or You could try to evolve past that. Wouldn't it be great to be free of being chained down by sex. Like I said, visit an animal shelter. Watch the documentary 'The cove' about how dolphins are slaughtered. Join GreenPeace. You can burn up a lot of testerone with that group. Try to use your testerone for something good. Really sweet nice girls would love a man like that. I know I do. [/quote] when sex doesn't control you , neither can anything in the world... its not for everyone. Most people do not understand. Being held captive over one's sexual desires is a prison in itself. Own your sexual desires, don't let them own you... when you change the way you think/approach this, it is amazing what will be attracted to you...:hf: [/quote]
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I'm sick and tired of wasting time, money, and effort trying to get pretty girls in the sack. I'd much rather just have one waiting on me, nurturing me, feeding me and fucking me.
It seems that some guys get that without trying and I need to learn how. I'm damn angry at all the time I wasted, and I blame it both on girls giving mixed signals and my failure to read them and be whatever I need to be.
I want to be as bad as necessary, but I'd like to avoid fistfights and jail. Just bad enough to hook the girls with minimal effort and keep them fucking me. And I don't want the loser "bad boy that's really nice" approach. It doesn't seem to work.
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