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Subject Women who went through C-sections...

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most women i know who had a cessarian have normal looking, 'i had babies' bellies, just have a big scar on their belly, so i assumed somethign went wrong with your surgery.

there is no need to get snappy with me tho.

cesarian is a routine surgery in this day and age, granted, like with any surgery something can go wrong, but so can in any type of labour, especially the one you girls call "natural"

my eyes are just fine too, you really shouldn't worry, and i will have my babies any way i like, this is only my business and my husband's.

same goes for eastethic surgery.

much like you are free to knock yourself out with you natural living.
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You are misrepresenting caeserian sections as being something safe and what every woman should have done so they can get a tummy tuck at the same time.  C-Sections are a major surgery and present a whole slew of dangers that would be entirely avoided through natural delivery.  Why would I let someone give such ill advise when my experience with two C-sections has been very contrary to what you report?  I'm more interested in making sure that women are aware of the dangers of the surgery itself so they can make a better, more informed decision instead of "gee, I can get a tummy tuck".

Things go wrong in surgeries.  That's a fact.
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u r annoying.

i cannot misrepresent anything, since i never claimed to have had a cesarian, or to be a medical professional.

i gave my opinion and you gave your experiance.
i tried to be nice to you, you got a little snappy with me....

in any case,

things go wrong with givng birth through vaginal canal all the time, that is why doctor invented cesarian in the first place.

women die in labor even to this day, jsut like people die during surgery.

i think you have some underlined control issues you gotta work on.
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Original Message Do you feel like you missed out on anything because you had a C-section?

Theres a documentary called "The Buisness of Being Born", Great little film about the benefits of natural birth. Worth a watch.

Towards the end, a woman claims she felt she has a missing link between herself and her baby. The motherly bond still there, but just some "thing" missing between them.

I've heard this repeated with other women I personally know who went through the C-section.

For me, I don't feel that way. I was put under completely for it and woke up 30 mins after the baby was born. Didn't see him for another 20 mins after that.

So I feel like I missed out that part, and that part was so very important to me, but I don't feel a missing "link" or whatever between my son and myself.

I tried delivering with a midwife and the thought of hospital terrified me. Wasn't part of my birth plan at all. I eventually had to go to the hospital because my labor went haywire.

Just curious how other women feel. Is there something missing for you? What sort of bond is severed, if any?

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