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Subject Too much obsession with "relationships"
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Original Message There are always posts here about relationships, on and on and on, and when someone today posted about how much she likes men, it got me to wondering . . .

WHY do people spend so much time thinking, obsessing about personal relationships?

Why is it so important for humans to interact consistently with other humans?

There seems to be a desperation amongst most humans who apparently believe their entire life's value is determined by being in a relationship.

When you live, love, learn, and evolve, you understand that heavy-duty emotional relationships are way down on the list of significant life pursuits.

For some, they are removed from the list altogether.


Inherently, males and females cannot live in harmony, there are too many differences and neither gender will EVER fully understand the other. Due to the vast array of emotions involved, they will never be totally happy and fulfilled. Those who say otherwise are only fooling themselves.

Same-sex couples "should" have a greater chance of peaceful harmony, due to an introspective understanding of the gender, but history shows us that same-sex couples are just as likely to be unhappy, dysfunctional, and unfulfilled as heterosexual couples, more so in many ways.

As for sex, it's a distraction. It's baggage. It's emotionally draining and physically dangerous. It's grossly unhygienic. For females, it's degrading in too many ways to count (though few will ever recognize or admit it). It transitions friendships to disasters. It creates unwanted babies and lifelong diseases. It can be physically/psychological exhilarating for a few minutes/seconds, but when compared with the baggage, hardly worth it.

People who obsess about being in a relationship are never happy, they remain in a confused state of mind, unable to concentrate, they lose any self-respect they may have had, and they completely ignore what is truly important in this world, in life. Sadly, many people lose the very best years of their lives, entangled in petty, pointless, and destructive emotional/physical relationships. Sadder of all is that in most cases, they have the choice to do better, to do more, to be more, to be happier - and yet, they throw it all away.

The solution?

Get to know yourself, love animals and give them your time and attention, respect and commune with nature, appreciate every leaf and flower and branch, count stars, paint a picture, write a poem or song, sculpt something, go to the botanical gardens, read something meaningful, create something that will last forever, add beauty to the world, plant a tree, bring an old car or building back to life, become a minimalist, reject gross commercialism and materialism, appreciate the wisdom of getting older, create your own sanctuary of serenity, if you are physically able, dance to one song every day and sing out loud, be thankful you're not a sheeple, be glad you don't have to share your space with another human being, severe all negative ties to negative family and friends, learn to say no, steer clear of emotional albatrosses, be happy with yourself.
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