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dating&romance advice - see Don´tBeAfraid´s tips/explanations - edited to have only the useful information for ya!
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[quote:Don'tBeAfraid:MV8yMDcwODEwXzM1Njg3NzUxXzM3QzE3MDc2] [quote:PENG:MV8yMDcwODEwXzM1Njg3NjM1XzY3MzQ3OURF] [quote:Don'tBeAfraid:MV8yMDcwODEwXzM1Njg3NjAyX0QyN0RCRkJF] You became "aware". You rejected her values(her SuperEgo) You avoid being within her sphere of influence. [b]This is why therapy is about the patient talking long enough that they actually tell themselves what is wrong. [/b]That same aspect is a part of any shaman practice. You should journal this, PENG. [/quote] Ha! Bingo. Love it! How much do I owe you? Oh, and if you held a gun to my head, I'd choose Jung over Freud any day. But both were crazy. Lol [/quote] If you learn anything, my reward is you finding as much happiness and fulfillment as possible when dating or in your relationships. Some green karma or an upgrade would be always appreciated. First a patient can discover better behavior methods (coping strategies for most come in crisis), a good counselor will then mostly listen. Point out what the patient said. Listen some more. No one will accept advice. No one. They will only change when they decide an idea is worthwhile, and usually from their own inner contemplations. So a patient talks long enough that the patient comes to that contemplation and decides they need to change or asks for help. Then the shaman says, "Why not try this?" Then the patient spend time contemplating that and practicing it. When they decide it's effective to do it and actually do it, then usually the patient is in a better place then when they first entered the cave of the shaman. [/quote]
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