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what do women really want? Women Only
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 25676821:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMxMDE3XzNBOUQ1OEVD] [quote:Anonymous Coward 26372742:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwOTA3Xzk0RUIzNTQ3] [quote:Manu-Koelbren:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwODEyX0ZDNTg5QUJF] [quote:Anonymous Coward 26372742:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwNzQ4XzZBQTZDMEQ4] [quote:Manu-Koelbren:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwNTczX0Q1REQ5RUZE] [quote:Anonymous Coward 26372742:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwNTI4XzNGNzhCMzMw] [quote:strikeforce:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwNDA4X0M4Q0JCODU=] [quote:Anonymous Coward 29373288:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwMzY1XzIxMjg3NjNC] [quote:strikeforce:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwMjk3XzQ5N0M2MUVG] [quote:Anonymous Coward 29373288:MV8yMDc1MTEwXzM0OTMwMjY0XzU3RUQyQzlB] Who cares? [/quote] some i guess [/quote] Then they waste their time pondering such crap there is not 1 thing all women want or all men want it is an individual thing. Constantly men whine why can they not figure out women, its because they are not all the same! [/quote] words of wisdom :hf: [/quote] men can't figure women out become women are much more complex biologically. women have a much more involved endocrine system, and release different hormones in different levels each week. men have more of a seasonal cycle. women have a monthly cycle. if you look at it like a sine wave, men are like the straight constant base line. women cycle up and down. for some women their amplitude is much greater than other women. men just need to keep being that straight line of groundedness. we women appreciate that. we think you are simple and oftentimes dumb. be you aren't as hormonal challenged and therefore are more grounded. that keeps us grounded. :) [/quote] Yeah I have problems with that, my gf is always trying to find some shit to stir possibly cuz she gets bored and wants some drama, and I cant stand that shit, I am grounded as long as a girl get's things when I tell her to, but my gf is a total rebel. Im thinking of dumping her for this, I prefer to be alone that with someone who enjoys drama, and most women like some drama, if it's not there they create it. After they get to your nerves they just act as if nothing happened and everything is fine. Well it isnt. That's why women like bad boys because they keep them on edge constantly ,even beat them a bit, I like peaceful living, not gratuitous troubles cuz i got nothing else going on in my life, i have things going on and i want my energy there, not on dumb shit. [/quote] This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.) The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BkI8LD24y0[/youtube] [/quote] Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed. [/quote] well, you have 2 course of action. you could break up. you will have your tranquility back. but that is not the path that will help you evolve here, as you have already experienced that tranquil reality. to keep evolving, we need to push ourselves to grown. how could you behave differently with your gf, so that you grow as a person? are you actually communicating with her, and telling her how much the drama upsets you? not in an angry way, but in a sharing way. if she does love you, she will listen. if you do this, you will help her grow as a person too. she will become more cogniscent of when she creates drama. look up non violent communication techniques as a way to communicate effectively. [/quote] Can't agree with this advice, sorry. Some women really ARE addicted to drama, so she cannot (or will not) change or give up the drama. I think these women think if they "invent" drama, and their guy jumps in to "save" them, it proves they love them, but it doesn't.....it's just a guy trying to fix the situation. that's what guys do! So the girl thinks the guy loves her cause he wants to fix the drama, the guy thinks he's helping, but really, he's just contuing the cycle of drama....and then he doesn't like it, but doesn't know how to stop it. Here's how to stop it: DON'T DATE WOMEN WHO NEED DRAMA IN THEIR LIFE ALL THE TIME!! How to tell they like drama: Do they love to watch those stupid reality shows, like "Desperate Housewives," or "Big Brother" or any daytime Soap Operas? THOSE are all FILLED with crap stories about full-time drama. So it gives those unstable women ideas about how they want drama in their own lives. GET AWAY FROM THESE TYPE OF WOMEN! Hope this helps. [/quote]
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