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Thinking about leaving my husband, but I'm so afraid of never finding live again...
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[quote:SevenThunders:MV8yMDk0NDcwXzM1MjY0OTg1XzVGMTUwQzY1] [quote:Anonymous Coward 23828900:MV8yMDk0NDcwXzM1MjY0Nzk5XzQ1MjY1QzA1] I am not old, ugly, or fat. In fact, I still turn heads and am often told I'm very cute by both sexes. I have never strayed from our marriage. I have been a stay at home mom for 19 years, and have always kept a spotless house, made homemade meals, done yard work, helped with homework, and supported his demanding career. I feel very neglected as a wife. Even when he wants to "make love" I ask him to say something nice, and he can't. It's so sad because I feel as though I have given him my soul. Y [/quote] OK so far so good. Read him this scripture, from Ephesians 5:25 "25For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.b 27He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30And we are members of his body." Your husband is commanded to love you regardless of how he feels or whatever is going on in his life. That's right love is a choice, not something we fall in or out of. Tell him that you do not feel this kind of love and perhaps seek marriage counseling. Though I have to warn you most of the so called professionals and many pastors are useless parasites, bent on destruction rather than reconciliation. Heck I wish my wife were as fastidious as you are, but each person has their own weaknesses and strengths. Jumping out of your frying pan into the fire of the world, via divorce, will not improve your situation, no matter what bill of goods the media has sold you. You will need to communicate exactly how you are feeling to your husband. Men appreciate directness. Tell him that God says that he is to love you, even more than himself. See the example is Jesus Christ, who willingly died for his bride (the church). That's self sacrificial love. By the way the other poster who disrespected me for what I posted earlier has never experienced this kind of love I'll bet and is missing out on what God has for her by following the feminist programming like an automaton. [/quote]
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I've come to realize that he doesn't live me anymore. I feel very lonely in this relationship, just sad.
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