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My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 844118:MV8yMTA0NTEwXzM1NDY1MDE5XzgyRThFNjc0] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1474948:MV8yMTA0NTEwXzM1NDY0OTY4X0RDMzFDQ0Y=] She sounds like she is either a heavy drug user or a time bomb waiting to go off. You should most definitely follow through with the police. Get a paper trail. For your own sanity, and your GS's mental health, call the cops the minute she starts. Don't let it escalate to the point where you fear for your own health. They should have been called before she had the chance to break the tv. If you don't get this documented, with the cops, she can say anything she wants, if she ever decides to go after full custody, or she decides to pick up and leave with the child. You want it on record that she is the problem and not you and your family. If she continues, to the point where it is unbearable for your GS, your son might go for full custody and you want enough against her to show that she is unstable at best. Plus, your son needs to stop arguing with her. That little boy was hiding because of both of them, not just her. Two to tango. If she starts again, he shouldn't argue but instead call the police and tell them he fears for his life. Tell them she is unstable and violent and you can't handle her anymore. And haul her ass into small claims court to pay for your jeep. If you feel guilty about taking that money away from your grandson then just take it and buy him something he needs. You are allowing her to do this by putting up with it. When she realizes your through taking her crap, she'll stop. Also remember, grandparents rights aren't absolute. You don't want her cutting you off from seeing him, by making you the bad guy. If she continues to do this when your grandson is being picked up, call the cops and ask them to have a patrolman meet you there when she is handing him off. Tell them she gets violent. This is not fair to your GS and if she won't stop it then you will have to. Good luck. [/quote] She and my GS live with me. [/quote]
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.
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