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My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
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[quote:goodmockingbird:MV8yMTA0NTEwXzM1NTM0MzgwXzkzQjA2MDcw] [quote:Anonymous Coward 844118:MV8yMTA0NTEwXzM1NTI5NzI1X0QxMzYyNUM0] Thank you for your concern. I just got back from my counselor and TSHTF. I had a long talk with her, lots of tears but we agreed that CPS needs to be called and my GS maybe removed, and they may both go to jail. Thing is the judge that last saw there case said that if there was anymore paperwork on them they were going to both get arrested. My heart is breaking but I know this is the best and safest thing for my 4 year old GS, he is the most important one here. He cannot voice his fears over this and does not deserve to be subjected to this sick cycle. and neither do I or my husband. This has got to be one of the hardest things I have ever done and very scary. And my husband is going to be bodyguard (at least when he is here he can) and I am going to share with my close neighbor to call the police at any sign of possible violence, doors slamming, loud voices, yelling, anything. And if it happens when my GS is here I am going to grab him, leave the house and call the police. I have my escape plan in place and am not going to respond to her provocation but if she puts that boy in one more ounce of danger I am fleeing with him. And yes she in the lunatic mode now, so all my ears and eyes are open. I have also talked to a few close friends and getting people on board to help me in crisis mode. [/quote] Sounds like you've got your head screwed on straight all the way around. Absolutely, it is the hardest, scariest thing you have ever gone through. Tell your close neighbors, your neighbors down the street, the neighbors behind you, and anybody else you can think of. Get friends to just drive by, pause, and monitor your house. Need anything done around the house? Now is the time to get Free Estimates on plumbing, windows, kitchen cabinet upgrades etc. Go ahead and get a locksmith lined up to change the locks on your house!!! Have him come out and look over your doors, so he will have the right equipment ready whenever you give the call. Get strangers -- on legitimate business -- into your house! Extra eyes! Do you or your friends have any 'gentle giant' type grown sons or nephews who could come visit you off and on -- Buy some big, hefty young friends a few pizzas, have video night, and just 'hang out with granny'. Invite in and brainstorm with anybody else you can possibly think of who might also have a stake in this to monitor the situation from their perspective. Could you talk to your grandson's teacher or daycare operator??? Moment by moment, simply do the next right thing that is in front of you to do. [b]And carry through.[/b] [/quote]
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.
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