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Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 1550123:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYxMzcyXzQwMDA2QjND] [quote:J&V:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYwOTczXzgyMkNCOTE5] Sorry to hear that OP, its a real problem, not just for men, but women too, when the other partner lacks in sex drive. If the marriage is worth it, find the culprit... Usually it boils down to something wrong medically or emotionally....both which can be worked out. [/quote] True. And since OP is wealthy he can afford to find out what is wrong with her. Saliva testing can be done to figure out if it is hormone related. If it isn't then she might need a therapist because OP needs to be upfront with her that he will cheat/leave her if things don't improve. She needs a wake up call. [/quote]
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I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful to my wife. I love her and she is my best friend which is why I didn't cheat. The problem is that we have such mismatched sexual needs. Before marriage my wife used to perform oral on me quite a bit and we had a good sex life. After marriage within the first year there was a huge change. It seems to me that she did what she needed to do to keep me interested enough to get me to marry her. We have sex only when she is in the mood which is about twice a month. When I try initiating anything she comes up with excuses or complains about it. She recognizes that she has a low libidio and has said that she wishes that mine matched hers. I feel myself drifting and moving more and more away from her and I am not in love with her anymore. She still feels like a best friend, but I find myself frustrated and I am starting to resent her as a wife. What is running through my mind is that I am thinking if leaving her as the temptation to cheat is just becoming so strong. So if you want to keep your man interested in you and your marriage then feed he needs. It is very simple as men express and feel love for their partners through sex. It is what bonds us to you and what makes us move mountains for you. We are simple creatures that way.
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