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Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
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[quote:christian:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYzNDY5XzYxOEY1REZC] [quote:Anonymous Coward 11922974:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYzMzU2X0RGNTIwNTJD] [quote:christian:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYzMjMwXzYxQTk2REE4] [quote:Anonymous Coward 11922974:MV8yMTA5NDg3XzM1NTYzMTU2X0RDRDZEMTQy] The reason I cheat is because I don't see how that would hurt my wife in the grand scheme of things. I don't plan on ditching her and I take care of her. So another girl shows some interest in me and we form a trusting relationship based mostly on sexual companionship. How does that hurt my wife? I'm happier which means shes happier. I still provide, don't hurt her. There is alot you can do to hurt a woman, but cheating is not one of them. That said the perception is that its evil so I am forced to keep it from her because she bought into this media hyped perfect marriage where natural sexual feelings don't exist. So I say relax girls the main issue for relationships failing is alcohol and drugs, financial reasons, and overall unhappiness. As long as you are happy and your man is happy things are good. [/quote] [b]You are being a liar and a deceiver what is Noble and good about that? Your a weak man, with no will power, your loins guide you instead of your Virtue, Commitment and Truth... Why be married? You make a Promise of Fidelity... So you break your vows... How you are a decent Man? you are a dime a dozen.... Not many Men that you can you find, are Diamonds in the ruf.... So ladies be careful in who you marry.....[/b] [/quote] I provide for my wife and family. To me that is noble. I would do anything for any of them. But to me the whole idea of marriage was put in place to create order from disorder. Men having babies and leaving the women kids growing up fatherless. Well I am not doing that, but I do recognize I have needs and if I can make myself happy and not hurt anyone Im going to do it. If my actions in anyway hurt someone I care about I would suppress my feelings and not do it. So call me an unnoble or whatever I'm a better husband and father than someone who is unhappy and comes home angry and drunk and does not provide. [/quote] [b]Your making an excuse for your bad behaviour... Would you like your son if you have one to grow up like you? being deceitful and a liar? Your being selfish, it is about making *You* happy.....If you put your family before you then you wouldn't be so wrapped up in your needs... If you have sexual issues with your wife speak to her about it, instead of dragging another person in the mix..... As I said..Your a dime a dozen...A Man who lies, Cheats and is concerned with himself first....[/b] [/quote]
I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful to my wife. I love her and she is my best friend which is why I didn't cheat. The problem is that we have such mismatched sexual needs. Before marriage my wife used to perform oral on me quite a bit and we had a good sex life. After marriage within the first year there was a huge change. It seems to me that she did what she needed to do to keep me interested enough to get me to marry her. We have sex only when she is in the mood which is about twice a month. When I try initiating anything she comes up with excuses or complains about it. She recognizes that she has a low libidio and has said that she wishes that mine matched hers. I feel myself drifting and moving more and more away from her and I am not in love with her anymore. She still feels like a best friend, but I find myself frustrated and I am starting to resent her as a wife. What is running through my mind is that I am thinking if leaving her as the temptation to cheat is just becoming so strong. So if you want to keep your man interested in you and your marriage then feed he needs. It is very simple as men express and feel love for their partners through sex. It is what bonds us to you and what makes us move mountains for you. We are simple creatures that way.
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