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[quote:Anonymous Coward 20529567:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDgzMDUxX0I5MzNDQjEx] [quote:WindyMind:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDgxNzQ1XzgwM0UwNDc=] [quote:Anonymous Coward 20529567:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDczMTEyX0M3QzRBMjQ5] [quote:WindyMind:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDY1ODY0Xzc2M0NEQzU4] [quote:Anonymous Coward 20529567:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDY1NTMwXzRGRTdGNTc=] [quote:WindyMind:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDY1MzAzX0IyNTcwMTlD] I don't like the part where you play games ( I love you) with him. [/quote] I dont like it either, but I am at my wits end. I really liked him as a friend and then he's talking about moving in together, I just was so shocked but I told him I loved his company and I was starting to grow very fond of him so I said lets not ruin it but that was an excuse to call me every name going just because I didn't want to have him as a common law husband within 3 months of seeing each other. He said he wanted nothing more than friendship too at first I felt comfortable and I found that quite sweet that he wasn't a typical guy (which he was!). All lies. Then he got more and more demanding and abusive I ignore then I get lies to reel me in, I give as good as I get I get more sob stories or abuse I've tried everything so this is my last ditch attempt and I dont like it but if it means he will feel he will have the upper hand then I will do it if he will leave me alone. [/quote] I would do some research into personality disorders and stalkers. After I did that I would pick a few ideas out and make a plan. A counselor might know immediately what you are facing and be able to help you get out of it. Basically talk to someone that knows more about it than you do so you can learn quickly what to do. Stop guessing and get information. Good luck. [/quote] Thanks. Well the good news is I haven't heard anything back from him so I think that's all he was after, getting the upper hand on who did the dumping and making him think I was suffering seemed to do the trick. It's so weird though. Interesting you mention the personality disorders. I did some research and this really fits the bill. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001930/ I can't believe there are people out there like this. I don't think I'll trust anyone again. [/quote] Thanks for the link I have been googling this personality disorder and added it to my bookmarks. [/quote] Welcome. I've been scaring myself thanks to you looking up all sorts of weird mental disorders... :P [/quote]
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A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police.
I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him.
In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it.
Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone?
Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing?
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