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[quote:Anonymous Coward 20529567:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDk5OTc4X0FGRDVFMzZD] [quote:Valeria:MV8yMTM2MjE0XzM2MDgzMTY5XzlEMDc3QUQ3] "Well still no contact from him yet (touch wood) so all is well but I do feel so wary now and feel nervous checking my phone for txts or missed calls." I didnt delete this persons phone number as I explained to the last police contact I had, I wanted to know what this creep was up to and if I could get any forewarning he was coming after me, I'd know. I just knew I wouldnt respond if he texted or called. It made sense at the time but the last police contact advised me to change my phone number and that is what I did. Is that why you keep his number? [/quote] Well if I get a call or txt it automatically shows the number of the caller and I know his number by sight. But I'm glad I know it at least, I just hope he doesn't get a new phone. When he met me he got a new one so I have both his old and new number. [/quote]
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A few months ago I met this person through a friend and he seemed like a nice genuine person until I got to know him better and we went out a few times for drinks but then he claimed his undying love and even wanted to move in together (shit we just went for a few drinks wtf??) we didnt kiss or even hold hands it was purely going out as friends. Now I am being stalked and I am worried he will do something malicious for attention if I report it to the police.
I tried ignoring texts, arguing, being nasty back, being nice but nothing worked and it gets more and more bizarre from pretending that he's someone who found his phone, to being kidnapped, burgled, dying in the street, jumping from a bridge (Hi I just jumped off a bridge and broke my leg turned into I thought it was broken that's why I am not hurt ) to being beaten etc etc etc. All lies in response to me ignoring him.
In the end I exposed his lies with evidence (I found out he lied so much I don't know if he ever told the truth) and then it was more weird txts about cursing me and the rest and the bizarre thing is the fucking number 3 was always appearing when he was around in many forms. It was creepy and I never understood it.
Thing is he seems to be in obsessed in having the upper hand like he needs to be the one who breaks the contact/ has the last word but then he will write being all nice so I ignore it and it still doesn't help so I wrote back saying how devastated I am because he doesn't love me anymore (he said he is withdrawing his love as I am not special enough and that I am worthless and a liar, abusive blah blah... don't ask it really does make no sense)so I thought instead of ignoring or being nasty back I pretended that I was totally heart broken and had been hiding the hurt and so wrong about doubting him and now he's ignoring me for about 6 hours, this is good going so far from experience as I used to receive txts constantly throughout the day. I really hope he's gone for good and somehow I hope if he thinks I am devastated at the loss of our friendship/relationship in his head that will be enough for him to leave me alone?
Has anyone every met anyone like this? What the hell is wrong with them and what's with the creepy number 3 thing?
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