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How do you get over abandonment issues? I have problems where I can't move on. I make things awkward with guys all the time.
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I have so many problems. I am sorry I am coming here, but I like the responses. They are most brutally honest.
I realize I might have abandonment issues. Any time a guy will show signs he likes me, I shut down. I shy up. I can't even initiate a hi to him. Is this normal? Usually, I notice he becomes attracted to me, will try to talk to me more, and I tend to shy up even more. Then the guy will stop trying, thinking I'm not interested, when I am. I sick of being in this torture cell. I feel really dumb.
Maybe the guy doesn't like me enough to do anything, so maybe it's in my head they even like me. I get with bouts of self doubt. I hate how I shut down around guys who seem to like me, and I can't shown it back. It makes me feel really dumb.
I am 29, I shouldn't be like this. I really like this new guy, and I have made it become really awkward. He used to joke and sing to me, now I feel like I screwed it up, and it's awkward and tension. We look at each other, I catch him looking a lot, but he stopped talking more b/c I would shut down. I feel so stupid.
I am praying for help.
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