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Subject A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!!

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It's easy to tell the kiddies with little to no experience apart from ones that have zero luck with dating for whatever reason, and then the ones responding that clearly understand and have been there before.

For one - when he said he felt physically ill waking up next to her every morning and that she was unattractive and he hasn't felt attracted to her in a long time - He NEVER said she was actually unattractive now as compared to the beginning of the relationship.

Those reading this thread that can identify with the emotions of the OP already recognize what he's saying.

Now listen up boys and girls that are still new to dating: Her shitty attitude and the way she treated him is what lead to him finding her unattractive and the disgust from waking next to her. She could look even better than she did in the beginning. It's not her looks.

I've dated too many hot chicks that have piss poor attitudes and treat people like shit. That same chick you met that was so smoking hot, soon looks far less appealing because you no longer see the physical beauty. What you see is the "ugly" that is within her and slowly leaks out, day after day, until you don't even recognize her.

Hence the old saying "She may be hot, but somebody, somewhere, is already sick of her shit"

I don't want anyone thinking Im a misogynist. The above reference and descriptions works both ways, for a guy or a girl.

Again, I think you did the best you knew to do with the experience you've had with her in past arguments. At some point, your sanity took over and decided there was no way you wanted to do this face to face and risk the false promises both would make, and risk being in the same place again in 3 months.
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But there had to be hundreds or thousands of SIGNS before and at the beginning of the relationship.  People just go blindly into relationships and expect the person to fulfill all their dreams.     When good judgment and discernment is not used in choosing a mate, then it can't end well.
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Original Message I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.

Anne,

I’m writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that you’ve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (I’m getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as it’s something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D

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