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I'm a (Female) Virgin and I have to ask: Is Sex Enjoyable for Women?
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 71632887:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDY0NDgzX0I3NUIwNzk0] [quote:Anonymous Coward 45976105:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDY0NDYwX0IwRDE3QkEw] [quote:Anonymous Coward 71632887:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDY0MzMyXzI2RTdGODRD] [quote:Anonymous Coward 45976105:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDY0MjgyX0M0RDE0QkIw] [quote:Anonymous Coward 74822712:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDY0MTA3XzdFMjQ4QjZF] [quote:Anonymous Coward 45976105:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDYzOTc1XzRDQUYxNTg0] [quote:Anonymous Coward 74822712:MV8zNTMwMTgzXzYzMDYzOTI2X0E4RDFCMDdC] Jesus Fucking Christ. What scares me is not OP being a troll (he is, and I abide by 'he') but that there are women who actually wonder. Nearly all women can orgasm through both clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. Many can orgasm through labial stimulation alone. Some can even orgasm through anal or aureola stimulation. I'd estimate less than 1% of women are physically incapable of orgasm. Consider that you may be doing it wrong, and spend however much time you require with a phallic implement to figure out the particulars of your body. [/quote] Not trolling, Ive heard from most of my friends that they dont orgasm during sex. They have to finish it off themselves. If orgasms were as common for women as youre saying then why do most women have to fake their orgasms the entire time??? [/quote] Well for one, stop faking it. How is your partner going to learn? Show him your effective spots. Maybe take the lead and find a position that stimulates the right areas. Also, you can't fake an orgasm with a man who knows what he's doing. You can make noise and buck around a lot but you can't fake the cascade of muscle contractions or the extra burst of wetness. I don't know why you're having the experience you are, probably because more people these days are too chickenshit to give their kids a proper sex talk and their kids are trying to learn how to have sex by watching porn, not realizing it's just meant to look good to a camera and generally isn't all that enjoyable for the actors. Just my theory. Ah well. Move to Canada I guess. [/quote] Well who says the men know what they are doing? Again, most women fake their orgasms, so clearly the men dont know what they're doing, but by hearing the women fake their orgams the men get an ego boost and assume that they are giving her pleasure when really they arent. [/quote] Most women do not fake their orgasms. You cannot fake an orgasm. A woman will contract over and over again as she orgasms. You cannot fake an orgasm. [/quote] Um you definitely can fake an orgasm. Just moan [/quote] Moaning is not an orgasm. So, clearly, you have no idea what you are talking about. [/quote]
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I don't want to waste my time ever trying to discover what sex feels like if it isn't enjoyable for us. Long story short, a bunch of my coworkers were telling me in the lounge how they never have orgasms with their husbands (only have them via masturbation) so they have to fake their orgasms so that their husbands can hurry up and finish. I guess its pretty much just the sensation of something gyrating inside of you, but there isnt any actual pleasure to it (maybe because of where the g spot is located? idk) Men on the other hand, from what I heard, experience pleasure and orgasms from sex no matter what, and it doesnt take them very much to get aroused and ready to go.
So my question for the other women on this site is: Is sex actually enjoyable for you most of the time? I've been hearing all of my life about how pretty much all women fake their orgasms and dont enjoy sex nearly as much as the man. Do you get any pleasure from it physically?
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