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help, ive been kicked out of my parents house, i have no where do go.
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 482701:MV82MDAzODBfOTE3MzE1NF9FNDZCMUMzQw==] I have sympathy for both sides in this. And have been on both sides of it myself. My dad threw me out when I was 15. Since both dope and porn can destroy people in the modern world, I tend to side with the parents on that. Someone here even already suggested turning it around on her by telling the cops that it is her bong. Boom, in come the cops. They find the porn on the computer, maybe some kiddie porn, and out goes dad. Maybe lose the house, jobs, the whole shebang. My son was dealing drugs out of our house and purveying cigarettes to the neighborhood minors. I explained to him that we could lose everything if he didn't knock it off. He kept it up. I threw him out. He survived. Learned a lot. Came back. F'ed up again and got thrown out again. He got his act together on his own, got over hating me, and now everything is cool. But your step-mother sounds like a real catch there. I've seen the type. Chain'smokin', tv watching domestic tyrant. Yecch! No matter how hard you try, it will never be good enough. She will always move the cheese. If you are going to try to go back, you probably have to lay low on the pot and porn for a while. Ain't that hard. It won't hurt you. You might be surprised how much you can accomplish without them. If you are stoned on pot from dawn to dusk, anyhow you have a problem, and you need to dump it for a while and get your head cleared up. When my boys got into porn, I did not go crazy; I just pointed out to them that they would not find any porn hidden around the house or in my browser history. I just don't need the stuff. My feeling is that porn causes one to view the other sex as basically a collection of parts, and that is not a useful approach to having real women in your life in a meaningful way. That is what I told them. I walked into the family room one time and my son was openly masturbating on the couch. I didn't go crazy, I just told him to only do that in private. I asked him how he would feel if his mother or sister walked in on him. He got the message. Point is, you can probably go back, but you need to try like hell to stay under the radar. You know what sets her off. Just cool it. It sounds like no matter how hard you try, it will never be good enough, so just get your shit together and get out of there as quick as you can, where you are not going to be out on the street. The guy earlier is totally right, your motivation for everything you do has to be your own success, not pleasing someone else. No matter what your job is, you are always working for you. The grades are for you. Cutting back the dope and porn is for you. Not to make someone else happy, but as steps to strengthen yourself. Good luck. You don't have to do anything crazy. ' [/quote]
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my step mom kicked me out of the house after she found me looking at porn on the internet last night. last week she found a bong under my bed. she flipped out and was yelling at me, slapped me a few times said i can't ever come back, my dad did nothing, was i tried to talk to him he ignored me. she's crazy and has some kind of power over him. im 18 years old and just started my last high of high school in a new city. i missed school today and dont think im going back. i slept on a park bench last night and am on the internet from a library. i have 80 dollars to my name and a backpack with some clothes. i dont know anyone in this city nor do i have family here or elsewhere(distant family i barely know overseas) i dont know what to do and im pretty scared
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