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HELP!!! I'm Starting to HATE my Step Kids!!!!!
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 500463:MV82MzU1ODJfOTY3MzMzNl9BMTk0Qzc1Qg==] [quote:Anonymous Coward 473060] I think you resent the $5000 a month that hubby has to send for child support. You hate them for it don't you! someone got ditched for the new step mommy.... [/quote] No, I am a female and the natural parent in a blended family situation. My side is hearing the step parent constantly yelling about leaving on a light, not eating properly, "walking like a girl", being messy and lazy, on and on. I have a hard time with supporting someone whom I perceive is attacking my child. I agree with many complaints, but it seems the kid can do nothing right. This step admits to being a lazy, messy kid himself, but by God this kid just needs to be yelled at to get him to change, Right????? My son told me that he feels like he can do nothing right. He cries so much about all of this. My son is beginning to hate the step too. It is a shame because in the beginning he recieved him with open arms. His natural father passed away and he was eager for the step. He even told the step he loves him, etc. Now it is like he feels betrayed. He doesnt' trust step anymore. He pulls away feeling rejected. I am very anmgry. We have had many fights over this. I know that I will not tollerate anyone who openly hates my child. It is a matter of it the marriage is worth the misery of constant conflict or not. There needs to be a comprimise or it will end for sure sooner or later. [/quote]
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.
I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.
Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.
For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.
The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!
I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.
They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.
Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.
Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.
HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.
Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.
Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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