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HELP!!! I'm Starting to HATE my Step Kids!!!!!
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 454032:MV82MzU1ODJfOTY3NDI0Nl83MkMwMDMxMg==] NO role on the face of this earth...is harder to fill, than being a step parent...NONE...I had the same situation, I had a daughter, he had two boys....what they told us in counseling, was that it was his responsibility to take care of, and discipline his kids, and my responsibility to take care of mine, and for each of us to back the other one up...Those kids need to learn to trust that adults WILL DO as they say they will, take allowances(what are they getting allowances for?) take the computer...strip everything down to bare bones...no goodies, iow...apparently they don't have any respect....your husband needs to get into the act and straighten his kids up...throw the damned dishes out..let them eat on paper plates if they insist on making a mess...you are very ill...what the hell kind of a man did you marry..??? I don't give a shit how much you love him...Tell him you are leaving unless things change..then, IF they don't... don't threaten...DO IT!! [/quote]
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.
I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.
Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.
For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.
The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!
I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.
They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.
Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.
Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.
HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.
Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.
Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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