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HELP!!! I'm Starting to HATE my Step Kids!!!!!
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[quote:had it too 27791815:MV82MzU1ODJfMzQ0ODQzMzBfMUY3ODQxMzg=] I feel for you. I have a step son that is 13. I have been with him and his mom for most of his life. He is getting worse as the time goes by. ALL the problems yo are experiencing sounds like you're talking about mine...exactly. His mother tells him stuff but doesn't follow through until she's had it and then throws a tantrum. He does it and then goes back to his usual ways. His mom has changed too over the years and not for the better. Anyway, I've tried talking to him, explaining things to him, asking him if he had any problems or comments about what I said or want. I told him to speak freely without anything coming back to haunt him for voicing his opinion. I try getting involved with things he likes. I have punished him for bad behavior and rewarded him for good behavior. I've taken away hi TV, computer, games, etc....he simply goes without and goes to bed. I think the two of us should dump ourother halves and run away together, lol. These last two posts have nerve putting you down. Must be nice that they have such "perfect" step kids! If they don't then they should shut the hell up! [/quote]
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The last 5 days have been very stressful for me. I need to vent.
I have been extremely ill for the past 9 months and my step kids (2 boys ages 11 and 15) know it. I even left my accounting practice 3 months ago.
Anyway, the youngest one never shuts up...honestly his mouth never stops! He complains and whines about EVERYTHING. Most weekends I feel like crying because his voice literally makes my ears want to bleed.
For over a year now they have been told to put their dishes in the dishwasher after they eat. Those fucking assholes have to be TOLD G'DAMNED MEAL to put the dishes in the sink or they won't do it. They supposedly are very bright kids. They do no pick up after themselves WHAT SO EVER ANY TIME. If they do manage to do something helpful around the house they do it soooooooooo fucking half assed it wasn't even worth the effort they put into it.
The oldest only comes out of his room and off his computer for meals. Then he stays up all nights on the weekend. He'll come downstairs and make himself all these elobrate things to eat and then leave ME the fucking dishes!
I love my husband more than anything, I've tried to talk to him, he tries to make changes, but the kids never do. I feel sooooooooooooooo frustrated and angry I don't know what to do.
They are allowed to live like total and utter pigs at their mom's house because she does not cook or clean.
Talking, taking money out of their allowance and punishing doesn't seem to matter. What can I do!?! I can't take it anymore.
Should I start giving them half asssed meals? Should I feed them on their half assed washed plates? I do their laundry and they throw them all over their room and then complain to their Dad they have no clean clothes.
HELP!!! I have been very ill as well.
Kids today are soooo lazy and so entitled. I feel like running down the street screaming! I'd like to smack the living Hell out of the youngest one, but know I can't.
Arrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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