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I'm gay and I hate everything about being gay
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 679365:MV85MDQyOTJfMTM5OTYzNjhfODBDOEZGRDU=] [quote:Wraithwynd] The "gay lifestyle" is an option only to being homosexual. Lifestyle is something a person adopts. Life is something a person lives. It is your life, you can adopt any lifestyle you want. The "sin" of homosexuality is debatable, plenty of books and theologians who point at the bible and say "these verses are read wrong/ are applied wrong". They still agree on the "sinful" nature of being "alone" in the world. Companionship, love and commitment is not everybody's cup of tea. However sex without these things is equally as empty regardless of your sexual orientation. Your problem may be as simple as you haven't met the man who has caught your whole heart. I assure you one day, when you least expect it the 'right' person will come along and you will want to be with them, live with them, love them with all your heart and will want to 'settle down' or enter into a committed relationship. I have no idea how old you are, I suspect you are young, still have a lot of life to live and you will discover on your own the truths that matter most. [/quote] good advice thanks [/quote]
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I'm gay but here's the thing. I hate the whole idea of it. Morally i hate it, the lifestyle i hate it, the idea of it makes me sick and yet i still have these feelings.
I don't hate gay people at all i just hate the lifestyle and yet i'm gay myself.
Kind of makes life tough in a way i guess. I have little to no attraction to women and yet the idea of being in a relationship with a man turns my stomach. My family and friends don't care either way but for me personally i'd rather be alone my whole life than have to live the gay lifestyle.
I wonder if there are other people that feel this way. I'm a pretty open person and don't care what people think or say about me but i'm at a loss. I would love to get married and have kids someday but then there's this whole gay thing and i just would never do that with another man.
oh well i guess. thats life.
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