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I'm gay and I hate everything about being gay
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[quote:ajk:MV85MDQyOTJfMTM5OTY0MDdfNDM2MjUzNDc=] [quote:Anonymous Coward 798300] Oh and the whole "gay culture" bs they drop on you, as if "you are gay, therefore, you must enjoy watching gay oriented shows, speak with a lispth and just be flowery in general, just like those other gay guys do", is an indoctrination into a lifestyle. It's all bs. Ive known gays that drink, and the more drunk they get, the more "pronounced" the affectations become. They learn that from each other and mimic each other. Just because one has "feelings" doesn't mean one is obligated to act on them, that's a cop out. Feelings are just transient, temporary things, don't mean nothin. [/quote] Well said, there is something to be said for self control. We all have different thoughts and feelings, but they all aren't good or beneficial. It's up to us to recognize what is what, and live our lives accordingly through our minds, and not just our bodies. [/quote]
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I'm gay but here's the thing. I hate the whole idea of it. Morally i hate it, the lifestyle i hate it, the idea of it makes me sick and yet i still have these feelings.
I don't hate gay people at all i just hate the lifestyle and yet i'm gay myself.
Kind of makes life tough in a way i guess. I have little to no attraction to women and yet the idea of being in a relationship with a man turns my stomach. My family and friends don't care either way but for me personally i'd rather be alone my whole life than have to live the gay lifestyle.
I wonder if there are other people that feel this way. I'm a pretty open person and don't care what people think or say about me but i'm at a loss. I would love to get married and have kids someday but then there's this whole gay thing and i just would never do that with another man.
oh well i guess. thats life.
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