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[quote:Smilin' Irish Eyes 656642:MV85Mzc5NDNfMTQ1NTI2ODBfN0FDM0Q3MDM=] [quote:Treasures] .....I can't get that picture of my litte girl in pig tails sitting on the counter helping me bake out of my head today. URGH [/quote] Oh Treasures, my heart is literally breaking for you. Our sons are 4 y/o and 6 y/o; everytime I read a story about older children doing these types of things makes me just want my kids to stay young always. Right now, I just want to come over and hug you, start baking together, have a good cup of tea. Please, I want to preface this with saying I am not judging when I ask this, but, what was she taught when she was growing up? I am sure you reinforced that she should never allow a guy to hit her. Deep down it sounds like she is punishing herself; does she perhaps feel "responsible" for the breakup of your marriage to her father? (I don't know, I'm just throwing it out there). Try to find a way to find out why she feels she "deserves" this kind of abuse. There is something that happened where she feels that because she did that, she now deserves to be unhappy. I am so sorry for the anguish you are going through Treasures. Perhaps go to a counselor yourself to help with coping mechanisms for you and your other children. [/quote]
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I have lost my daughter. Tearing me up, but I don't see that there is anything I can do to change things.
She's 18 had the world by the ass. Her great grandparents left a college fund for her so she could go where ever she wanted.
Oh but I am sure you can see what's coming.
She hooks up with this wanna be thug. He hurts her. The several x's I have got the see her-- she is covered in bruises...especially the backs of her arms. Fingerprints.
She's dropped out of college and yes, now she's pregnant.
He has successfully managed to isolate her. She is no longer allowed to see her friends or family. Of course she says it's her choice.
I'm just so pissed and sad at the same time. I can't stop being the protective mother when one of my kids are in trouble.
Any advice....?
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