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what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex

 
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03/24/2010 03:27 PM
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what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
If your boyfriend was still talking to his ex-girlfriends even if it is just on the internet would you have a problem with it? My boyfriend has one of his ex-girlfriends on his friends list on myspace and she keeps sending him comments on his status and he tells me that I should not worry about it so therefore I sent her a message asking what her feelings were for him and telling her that he is taken and that as long as they are friends that is ok, but I would have a major problem with it if it was more. I didn't curse the girl or threaten her just let her beware of him being unavailable and my boyfriend gets really pissed off about it. He thinks I was totally in the wrong by sending the message. We live 300 miles away from each other and I am very curious about what he does with his spare time. I am being told that he is seeing another woman but he swears that he isn't. I went to his house over the weekend and I have never felt so uncomfortable in my life there as I did that night. He usually always has his computer on and is on it a lot, but when I was there the only time he got on it was while I was in the bathroom and then immediately got off as soon as I walked back through the door as if he was hiding something. This happened with one of his other ex-girlfriends and she and I are friends now. A lot of things she tells me about the two of them are totally different than what he has told me. Although was doing the same thing by sending him messages and even came to his son's birthday party just to see him. Now she regrets it all and sees that the two of us are suppose to be together and she even said that she didn't blame me for what I had done. Maybe it is innocent, but I asked him to delete her if he wasn't going to talk with her and he said he wanted to keep her on there, but wouldn't really give me a reason to why. He says that he has not had any contact with her since we have been seeing each other although, I did find a comment on her status from him since then.

Yes, I am very insecure because he had dated this girl before while he dated another woman and didn't tell either of them about each other and he thought it was ok. It makes me wonder if he is doing me the same way. I just got my divorce from a man that abused me in almost any way you could think possible for about 20 years and it is hard to know when men are telling me the truth or not. How do you know how to trust all over again. I just don't know if I am really worth all the good in the world any more.

I have a male friend that I have been friends with for over 20 years and he and I do talk a lot, but I have not made any effort to go see him nor has he me. We go long ways back because I was engaged to his best friend years ago and now that guy has passed away. I have gotten over that, but my friend and I are friends ONLY. My boyfriend thinks he and I are screwing around, but I keep telling him they are no way! And that I don't want anyone else but him. How do I go about making my boyfriend believe me? Should I stop all contact with my other friend or what? What if I stop all contact and then the boyfriend decides he doesn't want me any more? Then I have given up a really good friend for nothing. I do love my boyfriend very much though. What would you do????? wtf y_sad
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03/24/2010 03:33 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
You shouldnt really be posting this shit on the internet, or asking for advice like this on GLP, you need to talk to a friend in real life.
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03/24/2010 03:35 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
Wait. You want him not to have female friends, but you don't want to give up your male friends?
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03/24/2010 03:37 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
Be single, its easier and you miss the mark in life a lot less.
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03/24/2010 03:40 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
Be single, its easier and you miss the mark in life a lot less.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 822427


+100

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03/24/2010 03:42 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
Wait. You want him not to have female friends, but you don't want to give up your male friends?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 699917


OP is obviously just a cunt who doesn't please her man, yet expects him to bend over backwards for her.

To the OP: on behalf of men everywhere, fuck you.
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03/24/2010 04:20 PM
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Re: what would you do if your boyfriend is still talking to his ex
Wait. You want him not to have female friends, but you don't want to give up your male friends?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 699917




I didn't say for him to not have female friends. I just don't think neither of the two of us should be communicating with our ex's. He does have female friends and I really don't say anything about him talking to them cause I pretty much have met them all and they aren't his ex's. How would you feel if your girlfriend or wife still had contact with some one she had dated before you?

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