I'm 42 and my boyfriend is 24!

congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it

are you allowed near high schools?

You're a fowl gross old pig pedo cow

You're a fowl gross old pig pedo cow

Now now... If u met me you would not say that!!!!

Why would he want you when he can have you 20 years younger and ten times hotter, every night, with a different girl?

You've found yourself in a precarious situation.

Why would he want you when he can have you 20 years younger and ten times hotter, every night, with a different girl?

You've found yourself in a precarious situation.

Yeah i'm hearing you but we seriously have a great relationship and incredible bond..
I'm still mighty hot too if I dont mind saying.
We go to the gym together everyday and people think we are the coolst couple ever.

congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it

are you allowed near high schools?

I think your insecurities are well founded.
But, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path.
I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun".
These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women.
So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point.
Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing.
Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own.
I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones.
Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it.

congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it

are you allowed near high schools?


Oh bullcrap... This is the PERFECT combination. He's young enough to use what he's got, and she's old enough to appreciate it.

Get off your high horse.

It's a hell of a lot better than being hooked up with someone his own age that is so self absorbed and into her mind games that she drives him away, which is usually the case.

The older woman and younger man is a match made in heaven.

I think your insecurities are well founded.
But, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path.
I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun".
These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women.
So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point.
Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing.
Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own.
I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones.
Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it.

I notice you said "we go to the gym together" instead of "we go to the library together" so clearly, your relationship will eventually fail since it is based on the physical and you ---physically-- have hit your peak long ago. Deal with it. It's over.

congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it

are you allowed near high schools?


Oh bullcrap... This is the PERFECT combination. He's young enough to use what he's got, and she's old enough to appreciate it.

Get off your high horse.

It's a hell of a lot better than being hooked up with someone his own age that is so self absorbed and into her mind games that she drives him away, which is usually the case.

The older woman and younger man is a match made in heaven.

I think your insecurities are well founded.
But, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path.
I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun".
These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women.
So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point.
Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing.
Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own.
I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones.
Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it.

That's almost exactly how it's been... He did leave me for a couple of mths when we went thru a rough patch but when he came back it was better than ever.
I have told him I don't expect him to stay around forever but he knows I'll always be there for him no matter what..
he does already have a daughter who was born a year before we met and we have her all yhe time. I love her and he doesnt want anymore children.
My first grandchild was born a few months ago prematurely and at the hospital for two weeks the staff thought my daughter was my sister.. Jamie is fantastic with my grandson! Its soo surreal hey..

This will only last a couple of years tops.

I definitely question your intellect/maturity that you would enjoy being intimate with such a young man. I could hardly stand 24 year olds when I was the same age.

Now that I am in my late 30s, I have NOTHING in common with someone that age.

Also, you are at a point in your life that you should be developing something beyond a shallow physical attachment. I notice you said "we go to the gym together" instead of "we go to the library together" so clearly, your relationship will eventually fail since it is based on the physical and you ---physically-- have hit your peak long ago. Deal with it. It's over.

Why not try an intellectual relationship? Hopefully, age will add to your intellect. You will never "peak" on this level as long as you keep expanding your mind.