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Anonymous Coward User ID: 933055 France 04/03/2010 05:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One simple question ... Where will you bee when he will want kids of his own ? I don't judge the love or all that ... but there is this possibility he might want kids of his own and you wont be able to provide ... Sorry but nature is made in some way that some things just cant happen |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 933051 Australia 04/03/2010 05:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would he want you when he can have you 20 years younger and ten times hotter, every night, with a different girl? Quoting: Plagued_SoulsYou've found yourself in a precarious situation. Yeah i'm hearing you but we seriously have a great relationship and incredible bond.. I'm still mighty hot too if I dont mind saying. We go to the gym together everyday and people think we are the coolst couple ever. |
Woodsprite User ID: 929717 United States 04/03/2010 05:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path. I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun". These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women. So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point. Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing. Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own. I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones. Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 931705 Canada 04/03/2010 05:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would he want you when he can have you 20 years younger and ten times hotter, every night, with a different girl? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 933051You've found yourself in a precarious situation. Yeah i'm hearing you but we seriously have a great relationship and incredible bond.. I'm still mighty hot too if I dont mind saying. We go to the gym together everyday and people think we are the coolst couple ever. lol the snickering doesn't mean they approve, luv they're wondering if he has a mommy complex lol |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 718510 United States 04/03/2010 05:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it Quoting: Anonymous Coward 931705are you allowed near high schools? Oh bullcrap... This is the PERFECT combination. He's young enough to use what he's got, and she's old enough to appreciate it. Get off your high horse. It's a hell of a lot better than being hooked up with someone his own age that is so self absorbed and into her mind games that she drives him away, which is usually the case. The older woman and younger man is a match made in heaven. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 933055 France 04/03/2010 05:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think your insecurities are well founded. Quoting: WoodspriteBut, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path. I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun". These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women. So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point. Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing. Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own. I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones. Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it. I sense some oedipian syndrome ... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 931705 Canada 04/03/2010 05:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it Quoting: Anonymous Coward 718510are you allowed near high schools? Oh bullcrap... This is the PERFECT combination. He's young enough to use what he's got, and she's old enough to appreciate it. Get off your high horse. It's a hell of a lot better than being hooked up with someone his own age that is so self absorbed and into her mind games that she drives him away, which is usually the case. The older woman and younger man is a match made in heaven. please...I dated older women all through my teens and twenties, what a fucking mistake spending my youth banging these old cows, who were twice as fucked up mentally as anyone else...insecure to the point of pathetic, selfish, crass...you name it |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 933051 Australia 04/03/2010 06:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think your insecurities are well founded. Quoting: WoodspriteBut, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path. I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun". These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women. So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point. Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing. Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own. I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones. Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it. That's almost exactly how it's been... He did leave me for a couple of mths when we went thru a rough patch but when he came back it was better than ever. I have told him I don't expect him to stay around forever but he knows I'll always be there for him no matter what.. he does already have a daughter who was born a year before we met and we have her all yhe time. I love her and he doesnt want anymore children. My first grandchild was born a few months ago prematurely and at the hospital for two weeks the staff thought my daughter was my sister.. Jamie is fantastic with my grandson! Its soo surreal hey.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 664728 New Zealand 04/03/2010 06:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I definitely question your intellect/maturity that you would enjoy being intimate with such a young man. I could hardly stand 24 year olds when I was the same age. Now that I am in my late 30s, I have NOTHING in common with someone that age. Also, you are at a point in your life that you should be developing something beyond a shallow physical attachment. I notice you said "we go to the gym together" instead of "we go to the library together" so clearly, your relationship will eventually fail since it is based on the physical and you ---physically-- have hit your peak long ago. Deal with it. It's over. Why not try an intellectual relationship? Hopefully, age will add to your intellect. You will never "peak" on this level as long as you keep expanding your mind. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 914422 United States 04/03/2010 06:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You can't keep imploring that you look so young. I don't believe it. And Old Man Time doesn't stop the clock for anyone. He's NOTICING the sagging, the lines, the age... Be REALISTIC. Stop telling yourself lies, get with reality, accept the inevitable -- HE IS CHEATING OR WILL. It's ok. You had your run. Many women along the way probably envied you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 931705 Canada 04/03/2010 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I notice you said "we go to the gym together" instead of "we go to the library together" so clearly, your relationship will eventually fail since it is based on the physical and you ---physically-- have hit your peak long ago. Deal with it. It's over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 664728I've never SEEN such PWNAGE!!!!!!!!!! talk to the , Aussie Milf, you have a new master |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 933051 Australia 04/03/2010 06:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | congrats...robbing the cradle and proud of it Quoting: Anonymous Coward 718510are you allowed near high schools? Oh bullcrap... This is the PERFECT combination. He's young enough to use what he's got, and she's old enough to appreciate it. Get off your high horse. It's a hell of a lot better than being hooked up with someone his own age that is so self absorbed and into her mind games that she drives him away, which is usually the case. The older woman and younger man is a match made in heaven. Thank you! |
Woodsprite User ID: 929717 United States 04/03/2010 06:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think your insecurities are well founded. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 933051But, I will also say this....when us older women go out with younger men, it is best to look at it a certain way....it is not a "lifetime" thing...but merely a nice stop on our way down life's path. I go out with younger men all the time, but I never look at it being anything more than just "fun". These younger men like us older women for a couple of reasons...the first and formost 1 I've been told is " we can teach them things sexually that our younger counterparts can't"...they also tell me that we are "less drama" than younger women. So, I think you need to adjust your thinking here, and then you won't be hurt when he decides that he WANTS TO START A FAMILY...which pretty much all younger men will do at some point. Understand that you are preparing him for a life with other women...because in essance, that is exactly what you are doing. Be a good teacher while he is in your life....and be ready to say a peaceful " it's been great being with you" when he has learned what he needed from you, and is preparing to leave you, go out on his own. I think if you look at it that way, the time you all have spent together will bring more good memories than hurtful ones. Hopefully too, the time he spent with you...you will teach him how to treat a woman, how to not be a "selfish lover", how ADULTS handle relationships...and our Sisters down the road will benefit from it. That's almost exactly how it's been... He did leave me for a couple of mths when we went thru a rough patch but when he came back it was better than ever. I have told him I don't expect him to stay around forever but he knows I'll always be there for him no matter what.. he does already have a daughter who was born a year before we met and we have her all yhe time. I love her and he doesnt want anymore children. My first grandchild was born a few months ago prematurely and at the hospital for two weeks the staff thought my daughter was my sister.. Jamie is fantastic with my grandson! Its soo surreal hey.. I hope it works out for you... :) I just know that when men get close to 30, or in their mid 30's they seem to go kinda nuts...LOL..that's when many of them feel the pull for 'starting a family", "finding the love of their life".. it's sort of like they too have a biological clock ticking inside them...LOL.. Maybe since he already has a daughter, he won't feel that pull...ya never know. I'd just be sure to keep all this in mind, so you don't get devastated if he does decide it's time to move on. Until then...enjoy your time together... :) |
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nomind User ID: 904314 Canada 04/03/2010 06:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you should discuss such things on a relationship forum, if you are serious about finding an answer and not just trying to get attention. Because you sure aren't going to get much valid advice around here :p My Interesting Karma messages: - "You are an idiot. This post proves it." -"GLP MEMBERS BEWARE!!! THIS IS A GOVERNMENT SHILL." - Most moranic one given to me: When you type ".." you need to put three dots instead of two. Thread: Nibiru, or how to appear like you know what you are talking about |
BillyX User ID: 921480 Australia 04/03/2010 06:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I definitely question your intellect/maturity that you would enjoy being intimate with such a young man. I could hardly stand 24 year olds when I was the same age. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 664728Now that I am in my late 30s, I have NOTHING in common with someone that age. Also, you are at a point in your life that you should be developing something beyond a shallow physical attachment. I notice you said "we go to the gym together" instead of "we go to the library together" so clearly, your relationship will eventually fail since it is based on the physical and you ---physically-- have hit your peak long ago. Deal with it. It's over. Why not try an intellectual relationship? Hopefully, age will add to your intellect. You will never "peak" on this level as long as you keep expanding your mind. I think you will find women in their forties who are dating boys in their early twenties don't have enough intellect to form an intellectual relationship. |