Why is everyone flaming this woman?
How is this relationship non-consensual and an act of pedophilia?

The age difference doesn't determine the lawfulness of a relationship, the actual age of the peoples age is what needs to be considered.

21 is legal and completely legal and consensual.

I'm 26 and dating a 41 year old woman.

I can tell you now, she is more loving, caring and adoring than any partner I have had of my own age in the past.