Is having children worth it?

Honestly, if you have to ask - "is having children worth it?" ...I would recommend not having children.

You ask this about "worth" only, when you do not know, what "worth" means. When you only live for your happiness, something about healthy, but only for yourself, when you only enjoy yourself in a bad full of bubbles, you surely cannot know, what other worths are here to get in this life. That is nothing about bad, to think so, but it is about knowledge.
To get a child means to lose yourself a little bit, but to find yourself double!
The communication with yourself is only one between you and your inner voice. When there comes a second life to you, with his/her second voice, there are then four voices more, not only two. That is the difference!

Yes I agree! I will never bring any innocent children into this Evil fucked-up as world. It is actually creating more poverty, and suffering people! If dumb baby-popping selfish sluts would open their eyes and see; the should realize that those people will suffer and struggle like hell in this damn world, and to be enslaved by Evil selfish ass Spiritual beings that are fighting over human beings to maintain control and power over them so they can keep some weak vulnerable ass beings to enslave and worship them, if not, they will throw a fucking fit, and send them to hell if they can't have their fucking way with them!!!!

Anybody that have a brain and common sense would never bring innocent souls into such a fucked-up, damned, condemned as place!

That's why when they are born they fucking cry, because the know they are really in for some shit like hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel so sorry for these innocent fucking kids that are
born........

After a child is born, I tell them... "BUCKLE-UP, BECAUSE THIS IS GOING TO BE A BUMPY FUCKING RIDE"!!!!!!!!!!!!

"WELCOME TO THE FUCKING NIGHTMARE ON ELM- PLANET EARTH OF STREETS"!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"THOSE POOR THINGS GAT-DAMN"!!!!

Oh glad i have no temple like Israël.

Anyway fuck you

Oh boy do I have alot to say on this one. As a background I had my first at 25 a daughter in a very shaky situation. It defined my life from then on.. nothing is as all consuming as having a child. I managed to graduate from college and start and career and raise a child. But I am a type A. My daughter is a gem but I went thru SERIOUS control issues. Nothing like a child to point out your weaknesses! So in the long term.. glad I did.. but the kicker is at 34 with a new hubbie GOOD career and plenty of money I had twins..boy girl. It was hereditary.. the most insanely difficult childbirth that could be had..luckily it was without incident and they were healthy big and perfect in every way.. BUT I never got to sit and have the cute baby moments..way too busy.. survived that too. Career crashed, marriage crashed.. Divorce with all of that insanely difficult..moved far away... in a GOOD place away from the city where kids learn to do drugs and pierce themselves into cultural bliss and turn into monsters..so my advice..don't do it unless you want to home school.. and live in the wilderness.. culture defines our children now and they are not yours for very long.. then you have them the boyfriend the out of control grandkids you know... just be wise get a dog or cat and let the kid thing pass..it WILL pass..just my two cents...

No.

I don't like kids so I wouldn't think it'd be worth it. That and kids can act like terrors, ill say no thanks to that.

Really...

Re: Is having children worth it?

Did you ask yourself why are you here????


Really...

A lot of people were probably accidents, and the parents probably wouldn't have said it was worth it before kids. Wouldn't say that everyone who ask if its worth it would make bad parents.

Well my parents never really wanted me, and now that they are old and I have moved to look after them, finally my mother said that who would have thought that they might need me.

go figure