Dealing with ANGER- Its a serious problem | |
dysfunctional mystic User ID: 795316 United Kingdom 04/11/2010 06:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we get problems through suppressing anger which can then manifest as rage all this bullshit about anger being bad is what causes the problems, it should be seen as an acceptable emotion then people wouldn't feel so bad about expressing it, but then what do we expect in a world where people are killed daily in the name of peace? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941663 Israel 04/13/2010 04:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | True there is a righteous anger but in a fit of rage one can ruin everything they can even destroy their life Quoting: Anonymous Coward 940037 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 923416 United States 04/13/2010 04:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anger may do more harm than any other emotion. One days anger Quoting: Disturbed 938394can destroy your whole life. The overall effects of anger are enormous. Through anger the mind and the body can both become disturbed. One who start off in in anger many times comes in the end to regret. Always be gentle. Don’t be rough and inconsiderate. When one is unkind to others this behavior inevitably rebounds back on you. Such behavior will cause destruction to one’s connection to the spiritual realms. One must allow wisdom to direct their emotions. know that receiving insults, abuse, and mistreatment in silence is a tremendous help in dealing with relationships. You have to work at having balanced, healthy relationships. You can’t run away from yourself. Read more including some DEEP spiritual implications [link to godssecret.wordpress.com] Why are you so angry? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1056356 Israel 08/03/2010 04:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dont think there is any one who does not have his "buttons" and someone who will push them some times you just got to stay 'cool' there are also times to stand up some times you just got to stay 'cool' this can be more difficult True there is a righteous anger Quoting: Anonymous Coward 941663but in a fit of rage one can ruin everything they can even destroy their life new Link new Link new Link new Link [link to godssecret.wordpress.com] |
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Luchare User ID: 1049931 Australia 08/16/2010 06:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me rephrase - is it a sign that you should be leaving or is that a sign of 'sitting where you are, she'll be right mate'? Okay, some advice needed. What happens when something occurs and you sit there 'calmly' instead of flying off the handle as you normally would? Is this a sign of leaving or chickenshittedness? Quoting: Luchare 1049931 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069714 Israel 08/16/2010 07:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anger may do more harm than any other emotion. One days anger Quoting: Eve_2000bccan destroy your whole life. The overall effects of anger are enormous. Through anger the mind and the body can both become disturbed. One who start off in in anger many times comes in the end to regret. Always be gentle. Don’t be rough and inconsiderate. When one is unkind to others this behavior inevitably rebounds back on you. Such behavior will cause destruction to one’s connection to the spiritual realms. One must allow wisdom to direct their emotions. know that receiving insults, abuse, and mistreatment in silence is a tremendous help in dealing with relationships. You have to work at having balanced, healthy relationships. You can’t run away from yourself. Read more including some DEEP spiritual implications [link to godssecret.wordpress.com] Without it though we are mer door mats. The emotion anger is given to us for a reason. It's up to us to figure out how to effectively get it out in constructive mannerisms. "in constructive mannerisms" of course The problem is when it is not "constructive" and we are better off not saying or doing something stupid because of impulsive emotion This is the test. (Challenge) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069714 Israel 08/16/2010 07:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me rephrase - is it a sign that you should be leaving or is that a sign of 'sitting where you are, she'll be right mate'? Quoting: Luchare 1049931Okay, some advice needed. What happens when something occurs and you sit there 'calmly' instead of flying off the handle as you normally would? Is this a sign of leaving or chickenshittedness? There is a time to sit a time to walk away and there is a time to act all has its place It is best to avoid the many unnecessary arguments with her |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069715 United States 08/16/2010 07:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | but anger most of the time is not the spirituality we want Quoting: Sugarelfits demonic How so ?? God gets angry all the time.... If you mean Yaweh then yes that evil murderous asshole does get angry. Why would any one anyone want to follow such a reprehensible being? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069725 China 08/16/2010 08:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anger is bad, says the Israeli. It will ruin your life. You must not lose your temper. Anger can only be used for constructive purposes that agree with the Israeli poster's ideas. Wonder what the people living in Gaza think about that approach to anger management. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 997724 New Zealand 08/16/2010 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | worse than anger is apathy, The people who are most in touch with what the Op says is the spiritual realm, are prob those who are most in touch with themselves and not faking anything. this means not masking or repressing their anger, because everyone feels angry about shit, and that is natural and real. Personally i like people like Noel Gallagher from Oasis - people who speak ther mind and say what they see. ( but he did look like a arselicking sell out cock when he went to number 10 that time) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069798 India 08/16/2010 09:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, some advice needed. What happens when something occurs and you sit there 'calmly' instead of flying off the handle as you normally would? Is this a sign of leaving or chickenshittedness? Quoting: Luchare 1049931i spent my entire life in anger but last year was intense.It's just because there are no guns available in india,i didnt do much harm |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1069798 India 08/16/2010 09:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, some advice needed. What happens when something occurs and you sit there 'calmly' instead of flying off the handle as you normally would? Is this a sign of leaving or chickenshittedness? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1069798i spent my entire life in anger but last year was intense.It's just because there are no guns available in india,i didnt do much harm at last i found apathy is the best way to deal with anger |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1234425 Israel 01/18/2011 10:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | new Link new Link new Link new Link Dont think there is any one who does not have Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1056356his "buttons" and someone who will push them some times you just got to stay 'cool' there are also times to stand up some times you just got to stay 'cool' this can be more difficult True there is a righteous anger but in a fit of rage one can ruin everything they can even destroy their life new Link new Link new Link new Link [link to godssecret.wordpress.com] |
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Xibalbá be User ID: 1234695 Estonia 01/18/2011 11:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OHHHH MANNNNN,good thread! ANGER,anger is bullshit. Usually people get angry,and stay angry for like days,maybe even years. They subconsciously devise a plan and some snotty phrases to express their anger,sometimes through pranks or even worse.They build up their anger like it was some kind of a feat.And they usually do it with a whole lot of style or calmness. I believe i have never felt anger,anger usually lasts for a long time,and doesn't come so rapidly. Indeed i am unable to calm down at people after they piss me off,but that isn't anger,it's because i'm very sensitive and pretty much everything is capable of pissing me off,thus i am on a constant rollercoaster of rage. But RAGE,RAGE is like the whole power of the universe injected into your adrenaline glands for a millisecond only to be released instantaneously because there's no way you can control that chain reaction inside every molecule and cell in your system. It's that feeling when your so tense that even the slightest movement of the universe including passage of time or even the fact that you are getting pissed can rip your veil of consciousness off the mortal coil so that you become even more hardcore than death because you instantly die and resurrect with the power of a thousand living dead terminators exploding outwards with themselves as the gun and the whole spectrum of matter as their ammunition that rips through every blood vessel so that your organism rattles like a black hole trying to suck god's dick. And it never EVER lasts longer than a day.After the big bang,it's like nothing ever happened.But if the same shit happens again during the same day,the whole scene get's amplified by x2. The worst thing about this feeling is that,whenever it starts,it's like taking a hit of nuclear fueled cocaine.You can't stop until it's all depleted.And the only option is meltdown. But lately i've tried to stay away from that...it's quite unhealthy and i believe my adrenaline glands are permanently damaged from all those outbursts. “The desire of power in excess caused the angels to fall; the desire of knowledge in excess caused man to fall.” - Francis Bacon, Sr. quotes (English Lawyer and Philosopher. 1561-1626) You will now All->Save->Undo->Cut->Copy->Paste->Bold->Print->Home->Alt->Ctrl->Pause->Break->Page Down->Page Up->Enter Insert->End->Delete Choose your destiny. Sub-atomic <-> atomic sub |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1410138 Israel 06/01/2011 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OHHHH MANNNNN,good thread! Quoting: Xibalbá beANGER,anger is bullshit. Usually people get angry,and stay angry for like days,maybe even years. They subconsciously devise a plan and some snotty phrases to express their anger,sometimes through pranks or even worse.They build up their anger like it was some kind of a feat.And they usually do it with a whole lot of style or calmness. I believe i have never felt anger,anger usually lasts for a long time,and doesn't come so rapidly. Indeed i am unable to calm down at people after they piss me off,but that isn't anger,it's because i'm very sensitive and pretty much everything is capable of pissing me off,thus i am on a constant rollercoaster of rage. But RAGE,RAGE is like the whole power of the universe injected into your adrenaline glands for a millisecond only to be released instantaneously because there's no way you can control that chain reaction inside every molecule and cell in your system. It's that feeling when your so tense that even the slightest movement of the universe including passage of time or even the fact that you are getting pissed can rip your veil of consciousness off the mortal coil so that you become even more hardcore than death because you instantly die and resurrect with the power of a thousand living dead terminators exploding outwards with themselves as the gun and the whole spectrum of matter as their ammunition that rips through every blood vessel so that your organism rattles like a black hole trying to suck god's dick. And it never EVER lasts longer than a day.After the big bang,it's like nothing ever happened.But if the same shit happens again during the same day,the whole scene get's amplified by x2. The worst thing about this feeling is that,whenever it starts,it's like taking a hit of nuclear fueled cocaine.You can't stop until it's all depleted.And the only option is meltdown. But lately i've tried to stay away from that...it's quite unhealthy and i believe my adrenaline glands are permanently damaged from all those outbursts. Nothing ever got you mad ? That would be unusual |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 8582138 Israel 01/10/2012 07:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | once you get over it you will be a greater person don't let stupid things get to you new Link Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1234425 new Link new Link new Link Dont think there is any one who does not have Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1056356his "buttons" and someone who will push them some times you just got to stay 'cool' there are also times to stand up some times you just got to stay 'cool' this can be more difficult True there is a righteous anger but in a fit of rage one can ruin everything they can even destroy their life new Link new Link new Link new Link [link to godssecret.wordpress.com] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3960495 United States 10/11/2012 11:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree with your thread title. I honestly find it so frustrating sometimes my anger. I yell sometimes and tense up too much. But lately I'm looking forward to treating this as a step by step process. Emotions are necessary and I dont want to be a robot but I envy those who always keep their cool. Nice job Ill be one of you soon! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25366787 Israel 10/11/2012 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree with your thread title. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3960495 I honestly find it so frustrating sometimes my anger. I yell sometimes and tense up too much. But lately I'm looking forward to treating this as a step by step process. Emotions are necessary and I dont want to be a robot but I envy those who always keep their cool. Nice job Ill be one of you soon! keep workin on it "SOON YOU WILL BE IN CONTROL" |
AmericanJedi User ID: 1503533 United States 10/11/2012 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anger, fear, love, hate, rage, and joy are all natural. What isn't is the suppression of any of these feelings. It leads to drugs, alcohol, depression, obesity, and eventually insanity! (GLP aka American Jedi) Listen here you beautiful bitch, I'm about to fuck you up with some truth. Kenny Powers If you steal the dreams of others long enough, sooner or later you'll end up in a nightmare. American Jedi Intellectuals solve problems, geniuses prevent them. Albert Einstein Satis Eloquentiae, Sapientiae Parum.... "The last of the old?" "No, the first of the new." |