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I'm sick that I married a ex-slut
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OP... how many women did you stick your dick in? Fair question I feel as you are passing judgement on your spouse's pass actions. Perhaps you should either think about moving if it bothers you that much or just suck it up and understand that this double standard needs to end. This idea that women are whores if they sleep with more than one dude and dudes get a high five when the fuck more than one chick needs to end.
When I started dating my wife, I was a virgin, she wasn't... didn't give a shit, I loved her. 15 years later and 2 gorgeous kids, she's still the love of my life. Quit being a pompous, self-centered ass and realize that she might have slept with other men, she chose to have YOUR kids.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1518653 Good for you. You deserve what you have. I slept with a lot more people than my husband, or so I believe. He knows my past and he never judged me for it at all. He is a confident man though and he knows how to let bygones be bygones. He also knows that I was troubled at that time in my life and that I regret the choices I made. He never made me feel bad about my past. If he had it would really have hurt and made me resent him. It wouldn' surprise me if OP's wife leaves him soon. I couldn't live with what she must live with. Amen to that, sister. I applaud you. We live in a culture that feeds off of confused, damaged pretty young girls, turns them into sex objects, degrades them, and then, when they leave the lie and find their dignity finally, the world, and their current partners, turn on them. Men created the word "slut." It takes a man, many men, to make a slut. So many men love their porn, their dirty little internet sluts, but those women and girls aren't real, are they? They exist in the computer alone, right? God forbid they be real, god forbid they be your sister, your wife, your daughter... It's time that men realize their double standard, their hypocrisy. Do you want your women clean, or do you want them dirty? Figure it the fuck out, stick to your decision, and live with it. I'm so tired of listening to this kind of ranting anti-slut shit all the time... it's a fucked up double standard and it makes me ill. I am so glad I had a little boy. Raising a girl in this world, amid all this filth and damage, would kill me. There is no way to navigate amid all this nonsense.... I know and agree completely. If I think too much about the hypocrisy I get sick. Men indeed seem to covet the "dirty girls" for their fantasies yet condemn and criticize women in real life who might just be thinking that's the way to a man's heart and are repeatedly proven wrong, because many men are just such pigs, it makes me very sad to have two little girls that must face so much bullshit pertaining to their sexuality, all the mixed messages, all the objectifying they face. I was that young woman, and fought men off from age 14, usually older men, then in my early 20s I finally felt free from the chains of my Catholic upbringing and overcompensated, always with guys my own age though. Then later on I thought the answer was older men, but they absolutely were not, and now I am with a very sweet, gentle man a bit younger than me but much wiser than me, because he knows me bette than myself actually. I count my blessing because such men are so rare these days and I want nothing less for my daughters. It's been 10 years since we met and he has never judged me for my past. If anything, he loves me more because he knows all the hardships I had to overcome and all the heartache and abuse I went through just to find a decent man who didn't want to exploit me. I'm sick of it too. Men have no fucking idea. I am sick of their bitching and complaining and their double standards and hypocrisy. You get it. Thanks for speaking out. 
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